Look At This Hot Guy And His Average Gf. People's Response Are So Mean

[Afro_Vacancy]

It's too bad that baldhurts has been banned he livened up the place.

 

[Captain Rex]

It's too bad that baldhurts has been banned he livened up the place.

what has he done, anyway?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

@Dante92
@David_MPN
@Xander94
@CopeForLife (escorts dont count)
@Exodus2011
@CaptainForehead


Who else am I missing?


https://www.goodlookingloser.com/laid/online-dating/how-to-lose-your-virginity-part-1



continue afterwards on II, III, IV, V

I have ED, though it's been better the past few weeks.

I've been naked with attractive women before, been in their apartments, had them grabbed me, etc. It just hasn't been common, and I couldn't follow up.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

what has he done, anyway?

I think @Roberto_72 can explain.

 

[sunchyme1]

lol how can bh get banned twice and im still here

but seriously id like to know exactly why he got banned

 

[Rudiger]

Already gave my reasoning for this. It was only a date. I conluded in a post a few days ago that although she was a very sweet girl she was to immature for me. Also, she travels a lot for work and meets a lot of people. It would only be a matter of time before some 9/10 chad came along and I would have been history.

Now he's banned again, reading this makes me think "did we really put up with this bullshit".

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Now he's banned again, reading this makes me think "did we really put up with this bullshit".

There's nothing wrong with what he wrote.

 

[SmoothSailing]

There's nothing wrong with what he wrote.

He was better this time, but he's either extremely humble/modest, BDD or just trolling.

I don't think he's trolling, I think it's probably a combination of modesty and BDD. In other words he's not the type of guy to ever to talk himself up or brag, and he doesn't truly know just how good looking he is.

Seems a genuinely nice person though.

 

[hairblues]

Now he's banned again, reading this makes me think "did we really put up with this bullshit".

I will say this from our conversations here for few months. He is very insecure he had a very mentally abusive Father and his main problem is deep rooted insecurity and horrible anxiety and some BDD...which he DOES have hair loss (not bad in my opinion and before my own hair loss would never see his pics or videos and think 'hair loss' and he has a great face and body so does not even matter)
But i do believe he is very very insecure in his looks.
I also think it's annoying as a woman when a really beautiful woman complains about her looks...so i get it that it can be potentially be annoying for some of the guys 'here'.

His hair loss to 'us' does not look bad but to him its horrific. This happens with people with BDD when they do actually get a flaw its huge to them. So hair loss is actually impacting him mentally.

 

[hairblues]

He was better this time, but he's either extremely humble/modest, BDD or just trolling.

I don't think he's trolling, I think it's probably a combination of modesty and BDD. In other words he's not the type of guy to ever to talk himself up or brag, and he doesn't truly know just how good looking he is.

Seems a genuinely nice person though.

I like him too...i just cant understand how someone forgets having 'sex' when they are having a break in a dry spell.

 

[Rudiger]

There's nothing wrong with what he wrote.

The guy who's sad about lack of sex, considering escorts, on the back of rejecting a 20 year old model who was actually passable personality wise? And you'd convince him that's fine and to keep doing what he's doing?

I'm not saying he's a bad guy, in fact in a way this can be seen as noble, I don't even think he's trolling, but I'm not gonna encourage such behaviour. It's all over the place, there's definitely something wrong with it.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

The guy who's sad about lack of sex, considering escorts, on the back of rejecting a 20 year old model who was actually passable personality wise? And you'd convince him that's fine and to keep doing what he's doing?

I'm not saying he's a bad guy, in fact in a way this can be seen as noble, I don't even think he's trolling, but I'm not gonna encourage such behaviour. It's all over the place, there's definitely something wrong with it.

An escort comes with no strings attached.

The twenty year old model does not. If he has sex with her, there's an expectation that at the very least he won't ghost her. He'll see her again or text her again. There's a possibility of pursuing things further which can lead to him being rejected, for example if a more worldly man comes along.

He's clearly insecure about his lack of worldliness. He mentions other people travelling a lot. He mentions that he could have been a pro athlete, but it didn't work out. By pursuing this woman, he risked being exposed.

I'm not going to "encourage" that behaviour either, but I'm not his mother and neither are you. I'm more interested in empathy, understanding, etc. personally.

I personally enjoyed reading BH's experiences. He comes from a different part of the world and experienced the world differently. We have some things in common, but not others. I felt reading his posts added to my understanding of the world. He's also not a bad guy. He doesn't hate women, blacks, etc. the way half the men on the internet do.

 

[hairblues]

An escort comes with no strings attached.

The twenty year old model does not. If he has sex with her, there's an expectation that at the very least he won't ghost her. He'll see her again or text her again. There's a possibility of pursuing things further which can lead to him being rejected, for example if a more worldly man comes along.

He's clearly insecure about his lack of worldliness. He mentions other people travelling a lot. He mentions that he could have been a pro athlete, but it didn't work out. By pursuing this woman, he risked being exposed.

I'm not going to "encourage" that behaviour either, but I'm not his mother and neither are you. I'm more interested in empathy, understanding, etc. personally.

I personally enjoyed reading BH's experiences. He comes from a different part of the world and experienced the world differently. We have some things in common, but not others. I felt reading his posts added to my understanding of the world. He's also not a bad guy. He doesn't hate women, blacks, etc. the way half the men on the internet do.

BUT he is rejecting her before she has a chance to reject him

From what he wrote at least...he is not sure he can 'keep' her to a 'chad' at some end point.

this is life in general..datign no guarantees for anyone that you may lose their interest to someone else

so he would potentially not be dating a model he seems interested in to pay an escort who is a business arangmetn.
@h.i. delivery is blunt or curt but he's not wrong about it being a problem for BH.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

BUT he is rejecting her before she has a chance to reject him

From what he wrote at least...he is not sure he can 'keep' her to a 'chad' at some end point.

this is life in general..datign no guarantees for anyone that you may lose their interest to someone else

so he would potentially not be dating a model he seems interested in to pay an escort who is a business arangmetn.
@h.i. delivery is blunt or curt but he's not wrong about it being a problem for BH.

I agree, I think BH made the wrong choice not to try things out with that woman, and likely other women before her.

That said, I think the context is that he has a fear of rejection, and a fear of having his insecurities be actualized.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I'm going to try this again.

I think I spend a bit too much here and I've already had my ration's worth of interactions today. I'll see you guys tomorrow.

 

[hairblues]

This is off topic and random

BUT Damn The website...LOL it keeps popping up ALL my favorite online shopping department stores, sephora, even my pilates equipment supplier i think i saw a glimpse of if not mistaken. GRRRR
Its still trying to sell me on dating filipino women which is hysterical.

 

[Rudiger]

@hairblues said it best and I'm not going to get too exhausted on this David but when you say there's nothing wrong with what he wrote, and then go on to voice that he took the wrong option, was there any reason in expressing the original opinion?

 

[hairblues]

@hairblues said it best and I'm not going to get too exhausted on this David but when you say there's nothing wrong with what he wrote, and then go on to voice that he took the wrong option, was there any reason in expressing the original opinion?

Its not really my business so take it with a grain of salt.

but i think because your original post can read like you are negative towards BH (and a few other posters have been giving him sh*t myself included on something specific) i think David felt defensive for BH because he is a nice, good guy who does have problems...some posters write things that read that they dont think he has any problems other than he caused himself...even if his problems are 'psychological' they are still problems--which i know you agree with but some others dont see it that way.

Sometimes people just get defensive on others behalf.

 

[Rudiger]

Its not really my business so take it with a grain of salt.

but i think because your original post can read like you are negative towards BH (and a few other posters have been giving him sh*t myself included on something specific) i think David felt defensive for BH because he is a nice, good guy who does have problems...some posters write things that read that they dont think he has any problems other than he caused himself...even if his problems are 'psychological' they are still problems--which i know you agree with but some others dont see it that way.

Sometimes people just get defensive on others behalf.

Yep and that's pretty much how I read it, I guess my response of questioning it was to remind us all we can be a bit hasty in our defence of others.

 

[Xander94]

bluee pill .... All that matters is FACE.