@pjhair,
The discussion of women's intelligence started because
@Xander94 said he can't meet women who are intellectually interesting. I pointed out that this is nonsense, and
@Exodus2011 got very defensive about it and started posting flawed research about IQ distributions, et cetera.
The majority of couples I know are both approximately looks-matched and intelligence-matched, as well as matched in socioeconomic class, race, etc. It's the norm with a few exceptions, intelligence matters. Xander is correct to want a woman about as smart as him, he's mistaken in thinking that he can't find any because all women are uninteresting.
For the most part women are about as interesting and intelligent as men, I'll safely assume that anybody who disagrees has not been around much, and has not known that many people. Often the interests are different, but if you can't handle going a little outside your comfort zone then there's something wrong with you.
The three sharpest men I know all have wives. I know two nobel laureates, they both have wives. My best friend is smarter than I am, he scored 1580/1600 on his SAT, was reading when he was 4, he was married to an equally smart woman in her late 20s. My brother-in-law learned to read when he was 2. In my observation, knowing a lot of smart people, being smart is not an impediment to meeting women.
It may be that there are fewer "outliers" among women, but that's a non-issue as there are no outliers on this forum. Nobody here compares to Elon Musk or Stephen Hawking.
If you're not meeting any interesting women, you're either not doing a good job of meeting new people, or you have an internal bias that prevents you from appreciating women's intelligence.
