Well he said he wouldn't f*** 6 and over on that chart, which for a tall, above average, in shape guy is reasonable. Although dropping your standards just to get laid is what many people do, it's good advice. But I don't lose empathy for him just because he refuses to.
But yeah that girl you posted is a different story. Fat girls here are almost never close to that. Usually, not always, they come with a whole unhealthy lifestyle including shitty skin, smoking, drinking etc. She's also far from the type of girl an incel could just get with ease, or even with a lot of work lol.
Any virgin who turns her down I find hard to empathize with though.