Memoirs Of A Landwhale. Blah Blah Blah

[CopeForLife]

Then please tell me what's the best blue pill statement to say on a first date? (Yes, I actually have a date tonight guys!)

@buckthorn be aware

 

[hairblues]

That's a very important quality for a girl.

Innocence, being somewhat fragile, naive, all these qualities tend to make men hard in general.

Girls who've been hardened by unfortunate experiences tend to exhibit a really unattractive attitude: cynical, negative, too self-assured. Men tend to hate that.

For men, it tends to be the opposite.

You want a guy who's been around the block.

No projection please, what you want in a guy is not what we want in a woman.

Thanks for giving my girlfriend that compliment .

I agree with this--but it's not really an age or an experience kind of thing its just if you at least appear 'submissive' and sweet to men and of course 'look good'--men are usually pretty happy.

but the reality is if you are 'sweet'--you actually get what you want much easier than if you are hard and demanding.

Southern American woman for example are real pros at this.

They dole out the sugar and bat the lashes and compliment before suggesting something they want.

thats why some women even as they age they have a sweet girlishness that comes out that men like.


but men are also rock hard when women accomplish cool stuff in work or personal life.

at least men I have been with have been really proud of stuff I have accomplished.

a huge selling point has always been that i am creative. They love that sh*t. I don't know why exactly lol.

This. That usually works for women, not for men. Women tend to find backups and/or beta providers ridiculously easy.

This is easily found and very true. Some men are always going to be willing to pay for the illusion of love and take shitty treatment in exchange.

That was the paradox, she knew exactly how men and women worked and why, but she couldn't help it: she was craving tall hot NW1's while she broke up with her ex boyfriend despite him being beyond reproach. "I just stopped loving him, I knew it was wrong to leave him but I couldn't help it."

Women would rather be single than dating an 'inferior' male. All her being is saying 'do not reproduce with that guy! Do not stay in his vicinity!'

Funny anecdote at my workplace, the turbo-incel guy (short, fat, below average) tried to hug one of the girls.

The look on her face:

"Do not touch me!" She looked like she had seen a ghost.



Nothing, last thing I told her was: "See you on Christmas!" (we were in July).

Then I deleted her number, she never tried to reach me again.

She told me she wasn't looking for other opportunities, yet I saw her reappear on Tinder several times while we were "dating". I pointed it out to her and she was like: "Yeah, I know, I don't know why I'm doing this."

I knew. Polar bear not good enough for her.

but how did you know she was on Tinder--doesn't that mean you both were?

"For women, after the age of 25, it's the beginning of the end."

"The men I'll be very attracted to will usually be the ones that can cheat on me and often do. I know this yet I can't help it, I will be madly attracted to that kind of guy."

"My boyfriend was beyond reproach, did everything to make me happy, I still cheated on him and broke up with him afterwards. I knew it was wrong but since I wasn't in love with him anymore, it didn't feel like cheating to me."

"I know that soon I will be old (she was 26) and unattractive to most men, sometimes I think about ways to kill myself (yes, she said that). I don't see how life's worth living if men don't want to have sex with me."

And so on. When I think about the last line, I think you could say that she was borderline black-pill/female version of a sluthate guy.

This is interesting

You are a hard line realist almost a cynic.

Yet you want the illusion and the hearts and flowers and the fuzzy bunnies.

I think you are cynical but deep down you were instinctively an old school romantic.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I agree with this--but it's not really an age or an experience kind of thing its just if you at least appear 'submissive' and sweet to men and of course 'look good'--men are usually pretty happy.

but the reality is if you are 'sweet'--you actually get what you want much easier than if you are hard and demanding.

Southern American woman for example are real pros at this.

They dole out the sugar and bat the lashes and compliment before suggesting something they want.

thats why some women even as they age they have a sweet girlishness that comes out that men like.


but men are also rock hard when women accomplish cool stuff in work or personal life.

at least men I have been with have been really proud of stuff I have accomplished.

a huge selling point has always been that i am creative. They love that sh*t. I don't know why exactly lol.






This is easily found and very true. Some men are always going to be willing to pay for the illusion of love and take shitty treatment in exchange.



but how did you know she was on Tinder--doesn't that mean you both were?



This is interesting

You are a hard line realist almost a cynic.

Yet you want the illusion and the hearts and flowers and the fuzzy bunnies.

I think you are cynical but deep down you were instinctively an old school romantic.

The most vocal cynics are often romantics who have become disillusioned and world wearied

 

[EvilLocks]

The most vocal cynics are often romantics who have become disillusioned and world wearied

Woooord.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

a huge selling point has always been that i am creative. They love that sh*t. I don't know why exactly lol.

Artistic ability is a type of intelligence.

 

[CopeForLife]

most of women are incels and beta (in men terms)

 

[pjhair]

But all the rest of the sh*t I despise. It's why I'll never go for a 7. There's no way I'll be the kind of guy to have girls ready to jump on my dick when a breakup comes 'round. I really don't want to be keeping her on her toes by ensuring she knows I'm still wanted.

That's not a good idea man. Always go for women that you are truly attracted to, especially for long term relationships. Compromising often doesn't help. If you settled with a partner that you are not truly attracted to, your dissatisfaction with her will grow over time and you will be miserable. It leads to both partners being unhappy and there is a high chance of break up.

 

[pjhair]

The moment a woman knows that you're all she has, bad things are bound to happen.

Very good thought process. NEVER let anyone have power over you.

 

[hairblues]

That's not a good idea man. Always go for women that you are truly attracted to, especially for long term relationships. Compromising often doesn't help. If you settled with a partner that you are not truly attracted to, your dissatisfaction with her will grow over time and you will be miserable. It leads to both partner being unhappy and there is a high chance of break up.

This really depends what @SmoothSailing considers himself to be rating wise.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

That's not a good idea man. Always go for women that you are truly attracted to, especially for long term relationships. Compromising often doesn't help. If you settled with a partner that you are not truly attracted to, your dissatisfaction with her will grow over time and you will be miserable. It leads to both partner being unhappy and there is a high chance of break up.

From experience, this is very much correct.

I think there are issues you can settle with - these are issues that are not deal breakers (liking different music, having different friends, having different hobbies); but there are issues that will always be deal breakers (mutual attraction, similar IQ, sexual compatibility, and so on) and these are the things that cannot really be negotiated unfortunately.

 

[pjhair]

Or, worst of all, you may end up with this kind of woman:

A women on my facebook posted a status very similar to this pic. She is a single mom and chubby and said something like "It takes a real man to raise someone else's kid" . In another status she said, ". It takes a real man to love big women". Yeah, just define "real man" to whatever suits you.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

A women on my facebook posted a status very similar to this pic. She is a single mom and chubby and said something like "It takes a real man to raise someone else's kid" . In another status she said, ". It takes a real man to love big women". Yeah, just define "real man" to whatever suits you.

We men need to borrow this phrase. Here's a start:

-Real women give surprise blow jobs

 

[hairblues]

We men need to borrow this phrase. Here's a start:

-Real women give surprise blow jobs

I do

 

[pjhair]

We men need to borrow this phrase. Here's a start:

-Real women give surprise blow jobs

- Real women love short, bald and fat men

- Real women love unemployed men

- Real women enjoy facials (@WhitePolarBear will instantly fall in love with such a women)

- Real women stay thin and care about their looks

 

[pjhair]

- Real women love to clean and cook

 

[pjhair]

Even before finasteride I never actually felt attracted to any woman. When it happened (rarely), I simply told myself she was out of my league and forgot about it, thinking to myself it was for my own good.

I actually never recommend people to not try because they think someone is out their league. Unfortunately, your self esteem was crushed by the harsh experiences you had to go through, so I can see why you gave up.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I actually never recommend people to not try because they think someone is out their league. Unfortunately, your self esteem was crushed by the harsh experiences you had to go through, so I can see why you gave up.

Depends on the context.

If I see a 22 year-old 5'11 leggy blonde-haired white chick -- I won't be trying.

I see them sometimes, they might be in the same public space as me, like the gym or a nice restaurant. That's when I get closest to them, which is also exactly when I'm reminded how far away from them I really am.

 

[CopeForLife]

[QUOTE="pjhair, post: 1447844, member: 118994]crushed by the harsh experiences you had to go through, so I can see why you gave up.[/QUOTE]

met real life u meant

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I love to cook not to clean. I am a semi real woman.

Same, I loved to cook, but not clean. I'm half a woman too.

 

[CopeForLife]

Same, I loved to cook, but not clean. I'm half a woman too.

it calls beta male