Memoirs Of A Landwhale. Blah Blah Blah

[hairblues]

Manipulation.

Games!

You want illusion--is this not the same as games--just semantics.

 

[hairblues]

I love to cook not to clean. I am a semi real woman.

I mean the men who are in 20s they THNK they want to support a wife who stays home to cook and clean for them but in reality not having that extra pay check coming in they start to resent them and use money over them.

I don't get all these 20 somethings wanting a 1950s traditional household? LOL

I mean who does not cook and clean? male or female?

I watched a movie few weeks ago it reminded me of some of the conversations here "Don Jon" with Scarlet Johansson

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I mean the men who are in 20s they THNK they want to support a wife who stays home to cook and clean for them but in reality not having that extra pay check coming in they start to resent them and use money over them.

I don't get all these 20 somethings wanting a 1950s traditional household? LOL

I mean who does not cook and clean? male or female?

I watched a movie few weeks ago it reminded me of some of the conversations here "Don Jon" with Scarlet Johansson

Yeah - most men do not want a 50s housewife, but some of them think they do.

I actually want a woman to be intelligent and have a decent income.

Traditional things like looking good and cooking are also important - but this stands for all adults. People who cannot cook and clean are not really adults at all - they are mere babies trapped in a grown ups body.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

it calls beta male

Nah, cooking is fun. This isn't the 1950s anymore, a lot of men including a lot of alphas cook really well.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

This beta make right here runs the world's number one ranked restaurant. He can empty cheese factories by designing new recipes.

If I know I'm going to Modena, Italy at some point with advanced notice I'll put down a 300 euro dinner reservation.

 

[hairblues]

I hope most rational sane men are not holding out for fantasies.

I always experienced men as more practical then this and generally speaking they want someone they find attractive but i don't think men are waiting for these perfectly, flawless women who are super feminine at all times and cook and clean and are wearing their Agent Provocateur underwear daily and are never without a 4 inch heel.

I mean they are out there but they are super high maintenance (and they don't cook or clean--cause them nails)

 

[CopeForLife]

This beta make right here runs the world's number one ranked restaurant. He can empty cheese factories by designing new recipes.

If I know I'm going to Modena, Italy at some point with advanced notice I'll put down a 300 euro dinner reservation.

I was talking about "half woman" part.

Cooking is a decent activity.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I hope most rational sane men are not holding out for fantasies.

I always experienced men as more practical then this and generally speaking they want someone they find attractive but i don't think men are waiting for these perfectly, flawless women who are super feminine at all times and cook and clean and are wearing their Agent Provocateur underwear daily and are never without a 4 inch heel.

I mean they are out there but they are super high maintenance (and they don't cook or clean--cause them nails)

Its probably a common want in the ever growing MGTOW community

 

[hairblues]

Its probably a common want in the ever growing MGTOW community

i dont know what that is i just googled it..

so thats a thing now?

but that sounds like they just don't want women.

 

[hairblues]

wow there is some wacky stuff going on

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herbivore_men

 

[JohnsonDDG]

i dont know what that is i just googled it..

so thats a thing now?

but that sounds like they just don't want women.

I'd highly recommend searching it on youtube. While many of them are crazy some of their arguments are compelling to say the least.

I also have mixed feelings about them telling men not to date. On the one hand they will save time and money which could be better spent on their real passions. And yet, on the hand, they will miss out on human intimacy, amazing experiences, sex, and lots of fun.

 

[SmoothSailing]

That's not a good idea man. Always go for women that you are truly attracted to, especially for long term relationships. Compromising often doesn't help. If you settled with a partner that you are not truly attracted to, your dissatisfaction with her will grow over time and you will be miserable. It leads to both partners being unhappy and there is a high chance of break up.

Oh you're right 100%. I am attracted to certain 6's, even certain 5's I find cute. I have never thought highly of myself (in terms of looks, I'm deadly other than that )

And even though I'm like every other guy and want as hot girl as I can get, I've always been happy with getting a skinny 6 whom I find cute. For a while my whole aim was to get a skinny girl who isn't dog dick ugly. I've actually come on from there and my new aim is to find a skinny girl who I find cute. And there are definitely 6's I find cute.

I am not settling here, I am a 6, in fact I'd say if I let people rate me I'd average at a 5, (don't want to know what copeforlife would rate me) but I look unusual, I'm someone who some girls would rate 3 whereas others would rate 7. It might sound like a cope but it's not. I've had short, 7's who have genuinely been interested in me even when I was so socially awkward that I could barely say anything to girls. And I've also had times where 5's and 6's scoffed at me because I "dared" try speak to them.

 

[CopeForLife]

wow there is some wacky stuff going on

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herbivore_men

that's @shookwun 's low T male as is

 

[pjhair]

Yeah - most men do not want a 50s housewife, but some of them think they do.

I actually want a woman to be intelligent and have a decent income.

Traditional things like looking good and cooking are also important - but this stands for all adults. People who cannot cook and clean are not really adults at all - they are mere babies trapped in a grown ups body.

It may vary by men though. I was once on a date with a really beautiful Ukrainian women. She was going to nursing school but also was traditional in her outlook. She said she doesn't mind cooking and cleaning for her man. During the date she would fill up my wine glass on her own. Very feminine. I was blown away by her. I have strong preference for such a woman.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Japan has a very high rate of incelism, ED, and p**rn addiction.

This was in the news, a Japanese man died, he suffocated because his p**rn library fell on top of him:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4278524/Man-dies-six-ton-pile-p**rn-magazines.html

 

[SmoothSailing]

I'd love to find a girl who was so redpilled we could talk about things in a realist way. I'm werid like this. I'm constantly in my head redpilling myself anyways, so may as well say it out loud.

I could tell her shes' average looking, she could tell me that she would rather a 6'5 NW1 guy and will leave me the second that becomes a possibility. We could be genuinely honest with each other unlike 99.99% of human interaction.

"You look horrible today hunny"

Music to my ears.

Seriously though this is a dream of mine. I'm so sick of dealing with other people's copes. People are sh*t, I'm sh*t. I can deal with that fact.

"Are we going to be together forever baby??"

"No, someday we will be rotting in the ground, gone from this world forever, you moron"

I honestly think I'm fucked in the head but all this falseness just wrecks my head. I can't make myself believe in the lies. I don't even want to. I think this is how I cope, by not coping, and somehow thinking I'm better because of it.

 

[CopeForLife]

I'd love to find a girl who was so redpilled we could talk about things in a realist way. I'm werid like this. I'm constantly in my head redpilling myself anyways, so may as well say it out loud.

I could tell her shes' average looking, she could tell me that she would rather a 6'5 NW1 guy and will leave me the second that becomes a possibility. We could be genuinely honest with each other unlike 99.99% of human interaction.

"You look horrible today hunny"

Music to my ears.

Seriously though this is a dream of mine. I'm so sick of dealing with other people's copes. People are sh*t, I'm sh*t. I can deal with that fact.

"Are we going to be together forever baby??"

"No, someday we will be rotting in the ground, gone from this world forever, you moron"

I honestly think I'm fucked in the head but all this falseness just wrecks my head. I can't make myself believe in the lies. I don't even want to. I think this is how I cope, by not coping, and somehow thinking I'm better because of it.

This, mate. This.

Lol at romantic bullchit.

Redpill truth I want to hear.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Yeah - most men do not want a 50s housewife, but some of them think they do.

I actually want a woman to be intelligent and have a decent income.

Traditional things like looking good and cooking are also important - but this stands for all adults. People who cannot cook and clean are not really adults at all - they are mere babies trapped in a grown ups body.

Yes but when it comes to having kids I think the ideal situation, for me, is that she stays at home and looks after the home/kids. I don't like the idea of having both of us work whilst the kids are raised in some daycare place. Intelligence is definitely a plus, but highly career orientated is not if kids are on the cards.

On the other hand I think most kids in western society need more of a male upbringing. To many kids these days, including myself, grow up in protected little shells until they are older and figure the internet or talk to their brother and suddenly are "redpilled". They should be taught the harshness of the world from a young age.

Kids can deal with a lot more than adults give them credit for. At some stage a kid learns the they, and everyone they know, are someday going to die. Guess what? They are sad for maybe an hour and then they go back to playing with their toys. Imagine you weren't told this until you were 20. You'd have a mental breakdown.

Tell your kids the harsh truth folks, otherwise they will respect who/ever or where/ever they learn it from more than you.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Have you

Yes but when it comes to having kids I think the ideal situation, for me, is that she stays at home and looks after the home/kids. I don't like the idea of having both of us work whilst the kids are raised in some daycare place. Intelligence is definitely a plus, but highly career orientated is not if kids are on the cards.

On the other hand I think most kids in western society need more of a male upbringing. To many kids these days, including myself, grow up in protected little shells until they are older and figure the internet or talk to their brother and suddenly are "redpilled". They should be taught the harshness of the world from a young age.

Kids can deal with a lot more than adults give them credit for. At some stage a kid learns the they, and everyone they know, are someday going to die. Guess what? They are sad for maybe an hour and then they go back to playing with their toys. Imagine you weren't told this until you were 20. You'd have a mental breakdown.

Tell your kids the harsh truth folks, otherwise they will respect who/ever or where/ever they learn it from more than you.

Standards of living are not what they used to be, two incomes will almost always be essential.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Have you


Standards of living are not what they used to be, two incomes will almost always be essential.

Well yeah, talking about ideal situation. Have only ever looked after myself financially, have no idea what it's like to actually raise a family in today's society.