Reactivated My Dating Profiles, Trying To Be Enthusiastic Without Being Obsessed

[Timii]

I don’t know whether these sl*ts have taken miles of Chad donger or not, so you’re right in that regard.
In the same way that I don’t know if they’ve got 10 toes, but if I could bet on it then I’d do just that.

Lol

 

[razzmatazz91]

Really good thanks, although I'm nervous as f*** about the scar healing! That will take months to see the final result from and will determine the degree to which I can expose my hairline, which also will determine my practical boost in attractiveness. Worse case scenario, if the scar is unfavorable, I can get some laser treatments for this or FUE to camouflage it, but it would be best if I don't need to worry about that headache. Most of these scars heal very well, but scar healing is completely individual and beyond even the surgeon's control, assuming they already did their best work to put things together nicely.

With my hair back, my hair is now somewhat like Adrien Grenier's, although not quite as curly (more wavy/flowing). ie:

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I actually have a better hairline than he does now. Which is wild. My hairline is probably proportionately somewhere around Brody Jenner's:

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I'd say it's pretty "Ideal"!

My surgeon did a very artful job of removing some of the NW2 zone of scalp that may have likely never grown back fully anyway, so I also have full density all over on top now, with the exception of the left corner up to maybe 2 cm into the hairline, which is maybe 70-80% of the rest of my head's density, and hopefully will be restored with my ongoing aggressive treatments. It's only really noticeable to me, and only because the rest is so thick.

Not trying to brag, but you asked! My hair is f*****g gorgeous right now.

I am planning on posting my full experience in a separate thread at some point as it's not a procedure many (any?) here have gone through, so people might find it interesting. But I'm waiting for the dust to settle completely. Mostly, like I said, I'm just waiting for the scar to heal and hopefully heal well.

Assuming my scar heals completely it's at least a 2 point boost. From definitely below average before even with my best forehead cover-up game (3-4 range), to quite easily above average now (6 range, especially for my age given most guys my age have visible hair loss) or certainly at minimum average at any age (5). I will be shocked if it doesn't manifest in increased dating success. The difference is not subtle.

It was absolutely worth it, and it gives me enormous peace to look in the mirror and see a face with much more ideal and proper proportions. My family members are the only people who have seen it so far but they have all been positively blown away, and noted happily how much more attractive it's made me, even if none of them really supported the idea beforehand.

I just measured, and it was approximately a 5 cm reduction. Yeah, my forehead was that big before. I've hated my hair since I was 10 years old. This is the first time I feel like I have a hairline and head of hair truly worth saving and one I can be happy with.

So overall I'm very, very satisfied.

a 5 cm reduction! holy sh*t man.. that IS wild.
Too bad your family wasn't on the same page as you earlier, but you can't expect normies to ever understand, even if they love you.

It felt good to read this post. Happy for you, man.

How old are you?

 

[Calchas]

20cm, damn!

Well,that was a rounding up,but not far from there.
I think being thin,having low blood pressure and protruding veins in your arms is a good sign for women to know what the third arm looks like.
That's how my arm looks like at rest.

 

[Calchas]

Not trying to brag, but you asked! My hair is f*****g gorgeous right now.

Before/after pixrs or it didn't happen.

 

[Calchas]

I don’t know whether these sl*ts have taken miles of Chad donger or not, so you’re right in that regard.
In the same way that I don’t know if they’ve got 10 toes, but if I could bet on it then I’d do just that.

Seeking for Virgin Mary Patrick?

 

[blackg]

Well,that was a rounding up,but not far from there.
I think being thin,having low blood pressure and protruding veins in your arms is a good sign for women to know what the third arm looks like.
That's how my arm looks like at rest.
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Sexy arms. Are they black converse sneakers you're wearing?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Well,that was a rounding up,but not far from there.
I think being thin,having low blood pressure and protruding veins in your arms is a good sign for women to know what the third arm looks like.
That's how my arm looks like at rest.
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Looks like a nice front lawn.

 

[davesmith420]

Really good thanks, although I'm nervous as f*** about the scar healing! That will take months to see the final result from and will determine the degree to which I can expose my hairline, which also will determine my practical boost in attractiveness. Worse case scenario, if the scar is unfavorable, I can get some laser treatments for this or FUE to camouflage it, but it would be best if I don't need to worry about that headache. Most of these scars heal very well, but scar healing is completely individual and beyond even the surgeon's control, assuming they already did their best work to put things together nicely.

With my hair back, my hair is now somewhat like Adrien Grenier's, although not quite as curly (more wavy/flowing). ie:

View attachment 84240

I actually have a better hairline than he does now. Which is wild. My hairline is probably proportionately somewhere around Brody Jenner's:

View attachment 84241

I'd say it's pretty "Ideal"!

My surgeon did a very artful job of removing some of the NW2 zone of scalp that may have likely never grown back fully anyway, so I also have full density all over on top now, with the exception of the left corner up to maybe 2 cm into the hairline, which is maybe 70-80% of the rest of my head's density, and hopefully will be restored with my ongoing aggressive treatments. It's only really noticeable to me, and only because the rest is so thick.

Not trying to brag, but you asked! My hair is f*****g gorgeous right now.

I am planning on posting my full experience in a separate thread at some point as it's not a procedure many (any?) here have gone through, so people might find it interesting. But I'm waiting for the dust to settle completely. Mostly, like I said, I'm just waiting for the scar to heal and hopefully heal well.

Assuming my scar heals completely it's at least a 2 point boost. From definitely below average before even with my best forehead cover-up game (3-4 range), to quite easily above average now (6 range, especially for my age given most guys my age have visible hair loss) or certainly at minimum average at any age (5). I will be shocked if it doesn't manifest in increased dating success. The difference is not subtle.

It was absolutely worth it, and it gives me enormous peace to look in the mirror and see a face with much more ideal and proper proportions. My family members are the only people who have seen it so far but they have all been positively blown away, and noted happily how much more attractive it's made me, even if none of them really supported the idea beforehand.

I just measured, and it was approximately a 5 cm reduction. Yeah, my forehead was that big before. I've hated my hair since I was 10 years old. This is the first time I feel like I have a hairline and head of hair truly worth saving and one I can be happy with.

So overall I'm very, very satisfied.

Glad to hear that it went well! Could you possibly DM me some information regarding the surgery (e.g., who to go to for it, etc.)? I have a straight up 5 head that I hate; I have always had to wear bangs all of my live because of it.

 

[Calchas]

Sexy arms. Are they black converse sneakers you're wearing?

Adidas

Looks like a nice front lawn.

There's a lemon tree!...and two rose bushes!

 

[Calchas]

Some more Madalena!
I think i'm losing my mind...I can't stop staring at her face.

Couldn't find the video in better quality,unfortunately.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Seeking for Virgin Mary Patrick?

A virgin female in 2018???

 

[blackg]

Some more Madalena!
I think i'm losing my mind...I can't stop staring at her face.

Couldn't find the video in better quality,unfortunately.

She's very cute and sexy. I've been trying to find some photos of her online but I came up blank.
Is this the Italian version of Hell's Kitchen?

 

[doubleindemnity]

I was getting bitter toward the end by the vacillating of women and the effort required.

For example, I went on a date with one architect and we spent 3 or 4 hours together. She told me all about her life and her extended family. After the date was over, we walked together, she wanted to show me one of the buildings that she had designed, and she explained the concept of the building to me. Later we made out, she smiled. She then asked me to confirm that I'd get in touch to make more plans. I said yes. Following this date, she showed no interest in meeting again when I got in touch.

I was tired of it, getting bitter, and so I decided to try some other things in the meantime such as volounteering at the animal shelter. The idea was allow my mind to refresh, rather than risk falling further down the quicksand of bitterness.

Why are you getting 0 dates a year? Are you even trying?



You should not expect other people's experiences to directly apply to you.

However, if you're doing the same thing over and over again and not making improvements then you will need to make modifications -- you can look up Einstein's definition of insanity. You will need to evaluate your game, your presence, your looks, your standards, etc.

Personally I think that I missed the game as it would have been easier to find a future wife at 25. More good women are single at that age. Further, OkCupid and PlentyOfFish were better dating sites for non-Chads, as the layout of the pages emphasized personality. In contrast, looks are further emphasized on modern apps.

Further, modern apps emphasize geography. My best friend met his now-wife on OkCupid back around 2011. He was browsing OkCupid (or maybe she was browsing) and noticed a nice girl some ~700 km away. So he messaged her, they connected, he drove ~10 hours to her place, and they had sex. Now they're married and expecting their first child, a daughter. That would never happen on a modern app as it is impossible to message a woman who lives that far away, as people define a 25 mile or 50 mile radius within the apps themselves.

Why didn't you simply invite this architect back to your home? Anyway, it's over so let's not worry about it. I've had similar experiences of women having a good time with me, agreeing that they had a good time and never getting in touch for more dates. You have to try to get as far as possible on the first date or you risk this happening, sadly.

Einstein never actually defined insanity that way. It was somebody else who attributed it to Einstein. Therefore, I ignore it. But yes I'm trying to modify my game, presence etc. My looks are already rock bottom and there's no way to fix it. Dermmatch looks like paint. A spray applicator for fibres is the only thing that I haven't tried yet and my last hope. I don't expect that game, presence etc. will make a bit of a difference, but I'll try. I'm going to try being a tough, masculine type. My standards won't change. If I can choose from 3 women in one week and only have time to see one, I'm going to choose the best one according to my standards.

@razzmatazz91 might be getting no dates because of baldness. I got one lucky date in my first 4 months of using multiple apps. The date went nowhere of course, but the point is that without that bit of luck, it could have easily been no dates. Everything changed when I discovered how one can have much more success with photos taken in poor lighting (to hide hair loss). Maybe he has scruples enough to not do what I'm doing with his photos and is therefore not getting any dates.

I totally agree that we should have tried online dating before Tinder etc. became big. I kept hearing about people having good experiences on it but thought "ugh...online dating". Now it's mainstream and impossible to get anywhere on it.

 

[Calchas]

A virgin female in 2018???
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Is your misogynism the result of a traumatic event with a woman or of a no event at all?

She's very cute and sexy. I've been trying to find some photos of her online but I came up blank.
Is this the Italian version of Hell's Kitchen?

Lol!...You can't tell the Greek from the Italian language?
On what planet do you live?
Her social media accounts are almost inactive and with no personal content....Fortunately!

 

[IdealForehead]

Living the dream!

Is there a cream you can take to reduce scarring?

Thanks Johnny. Scar therapy is a very black art. No one really knows how to promote ideal healing of scars. I have done my best to research it without going to my usual obsessive levels because I simply am exhausted and can't bury myself mentally in it.

Part of the challenge with scars is you can have two problems - atrophic scarring (where you get a divet) and hypertrophic scarring (where you get a ridge). Most people, if they develop problems, get hypertrophic scars. I think I am more prone to this myself as well.

Here are a few key points of what I know for manipulating wound healing:

• Androgens seem to increase inflammation and thus impair healing. Anti-androgens accelerate healing. For this reason, I am continuing to apply my daro solution.
• Anti-histamines have been suggested as a possible therapy to reduce overgrown scars, as histamines are involved in the itch and inflammation process of excess scarring (again, like androgens, just as with balding). So I am continuing my desloratadine around the scar as well.
• Minoxidil impairs collagen formation, which could cause atrophic scarring, so I've cut it out of my formulations.
• Niacinamide is just a B vitamin which is good for acne, hair growth, anti-inflammation, and collagen production, so I am keeping it in the formulation too.
• Aquaphor has been shown to be more effective than polysporin or neosporin for enhancing wound healing, so I started using that as soon as my stitches came out. Problem is it's greasy as f***.
• Silicon Scar Gel has been shown to be effective for improving scars, and should provide the same moisturizing benefits as Aquaphor, so I've switched to that as of yesterday.
• Topical estrogen can accelerate wound healing, so I think as of today I'm going to start putting some Estriol cream on my scar to see if it helps as well.

I know. More than you asked. I have this tendency.

But it's a hard subject because I only have one chance to get the scar to heal as well as possible, and there isn't an instruction manual on how to do it. Most of it is just educated guesswork and then waiting to see.

 

[blackg]

A virgin female in 2018???
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Newman-pill.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

1 girl canceled on me this weekend, she said that she's met someone, and after that she unmatched me. It's too bad, she had a great smile.

Another told me that she was sick, and that we should postpone until this week.

A third I met today. I drove ~50 minutes to and back from the date as she lives a little far out. We met in a brunch place (Sunday brunch is big in this part of the world) and we flirted a lot. This followed up on extensive texting yesterday where she told me that I gave her the best conversation that she's had in a long time, that she liked my profile (both photo details and the profile text), and a few other things. She was flirty throughout and we had a lot of touching going on. She said that I was really sweet.

I told her that I'd like to have more fun with her but I was not comfortable doing so in a public space, she said that she was sorry but I could wait until next week. She changed her mind after I tickled her ear with my right index finger for a little bit, and we ended up at an isolated bench where we made out for 15 minutes.

She's smart, she likes me, she has nice breasts, but for the time being nothing clicked. We only met once so that follows. It bothers me that she's a few years older than me. We'll see how things go.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Why didn't you simply invite this architect back to your home? Anyway, it's over so let's not worry about it. I've had similar experiences of women having a good time with me, agreeing that they had a good time and never getting in touch for more dates. You have to try to get as far as possible on the first date or you risk this happening, sadly.

Einstein never actually defined insanity that way. It was somebody else who attributed it to Einstein. Therefore, I ignore it. But yes I'm trying to modify my game, presence etc. My looks are already rock bottom and there's no way to fix it. Dermmatch looks like paint. A spray applicator for fibres is the only thing that I haven't tried yet and my last hope. I don't expect that game, presence etc. will make a bit of a difference, but I'll try. I'm going to try being a tough, masculine type. My standards won't change. If I can choose from 3 women in one week and only have time to see one, I'm going to choose the best one according to my standards.

@razzmatazz91 might be getting no dates because of baldness. I got one lucky date in my first 4 months of using multiple apps. The date went nowhere of course, but the point is that without that bit of luck, it could have easily been no dates. Everything changed when I discovered how one can have much more success with photos taken in poor lighting (to hide hair loss). Maybe he has scruples enough to not do what I'm doing with his photos and is therefore not getting any dates.

I totally agree that we should have tried online dating before Tinder etc. became big. I kept hearing about people having good experiences on it but thought "ugh...online dating". Now it's mainstream and impossible to get anywhere on it.

The architect and I were not near my house, and we both had places to be.

I seriously wonder if the rate of incelism will go up sufficiently for even sociologists, psychologists, and journalists to notice. As far as the mainstream is concerned, 99% of people have great regular sex. In particular, the people who get jobs where they can discuss sex (e.g. Jessica Valenti) can assume that even more. I think that Valenti said that she wrote her most recent book (confessions of a sex object) so that other women can know what's normal.

That may change over time as online dating takes over, given that Tinder, etc are a barren wasteland for average men.

Either that or we'll get articles about how young women are disappointed that men don't know how to please them, and that this situation is due to cultural misogyny.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

1 girl canceled on me this weekend, she said that she's met someone, and after that she unmatched me. It's too bad, she had a great smile.

Another told me that she was sick, and that we should postpone until this week.

A third I met today. I drove ~50 minutes to and back from the date as she lives a little far out. We met in a brunch place (Sunday brunch is big in this part of the world) and we flirted a lot. This followed up on extensive texting yesterday where she told me that I gave her the best conversation that she's had in a long time, that she liked my profile (both photo details and the profile text), and a few other things. She was flirty throughout and we had a lot of touching going on. She said that I was really sweet.

I told her that I'd like to have more fun with her but I was not comfortable doing so in a public space, she said that she was sorry but I could wait until next week. She changed her mind after I tickled her ear with my right index finger for a little bit, and we ended up at an isolated bench where we made out for 15 minutes.

She's smart, she likes me, she has nice breasts, but for the time being nothing clicked. We only met once so that follows. It bothers me that she's a few years older than me. We'll see how things go.

Do you kiss them on the first date??

If you don't kiss on the first date then it wont happen.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Do you kiss them on the first date??

If you don't kiss on the first date then it wont happen.

Not all women are the same, but as for this woman, I wrote about it in the text that you quoted.