- Reaction score
- 6,504
I agree here, kj is pretty much none the wiser, she might be interested, she might not, nothing's really changed as far as I can see it. I've been in situations where not only did a girl "not seem that interested" but expressed outright disapproval at the idea of ever going out at any time, but I acted like I didn't care (I did) and upon reflection anyone can change their mind over something.
If this was a big thing or opportunity for you kj and you felt really into it, I don't know if you should have asked to hang out later that day. It's a bit strong, you might not have really been thinking this through in the same way guys who are used to asking out "tactics" might apply themselves. There's a really soft "let's be friends outside of being acquaintances" approach, like texting randomly etc. (do you work with her or something? I forget) and then there's also the open ended option of asking if she'd be open to hang out sometime, I mean if she's not that strongly interested yet (and I wouldn't be put off by that) then it at least puts the idea in her head, and in future you can set a particular time to go out and do something.
I wouldn't worry about it whatever happens though, you made a move, well played sir.
