Aw blackg "gymcelling" is just like "cope", an overused word on here. I wasn't an incel before going to the gym, and am not now, for whatever reason I decided getting lean or buff became something I wanted to attain. Like I've written the other day, "gymcel" is someone who goes to the gym to get laid, and then never gets laid, it's as simple as that, and is such a heart-wrenching thought that guys go to all this effort to get buff for women and then still never get anywhere. Then the motivation to continue will die, it's like they've done a LOT to get chicks, and get nowhere, and that will hurt a sh*t load.
But I still recommend it to everyone, before I started training and even more so now. But only if picking up women is just a by-product of going to the gym, don't see it as the main focus because it's a long and arduous process with slow results, and if it's purely to pick up women you will just get more depressed.
As stupid as pushing weights around and sweating amongst other sweaty guys sounds, it is the source of a meditation for people, it's certainly given me a sense of mental balance that I haven't felt since I was a young kid (nearly 30 now), and that's improved me in many ways, and will continue to.
