I appreciate your nice compliment, but for myself I just don't see it. Hair loss has killed me as a person and I have no confidence in myself or self esteem. When I go out in public I keep my eyes at the ground and when I get home I feel so much better.
I have seen guys who look like you with good looking women. Just look around you next time when you are out and you will see what I am talking about. That is reality. Don't make internet forums your reality where you see a lot of men posting pics of male models and claiming that if you don't look like that, you don't have a shot with even average looking women.