OK, some examples of meeting girls in real life in public and in the workplace.
Example 1.
I was traveling on the train with my brother recently and this cute girl around his age was initiating and maintaining frequent eye contact with him (the bastard).
So after 5 or so minutes of this I convinced him to go and say hello. He does, after some more prodding. He is a very shy and modest guy.
He goes and sits next to her. She smiles, turns and to towards him to speak (a very good sign) and they chat and laugh for the rest of our journey. About 30 minutes.
He gets her number and kisses her on the cheek before he leaves.
She is all smiles and says she will look forward to hearing from him.
He rings her the next day. They end up being an item for the next 6 months or so.
Example 2.
This happened in the workplace.
A guy I know. Lets call him Fred, for arguments sake.
Anyway "Fred" worked as an after hours shelf stacker for some super market chain on a casual basis. The whole staff was casual and ranged from the ages of 18 to early 30 somethings, so the shift had a relaxed, cool vibe to it.
Anyway after "Fred" had been working at this place for about 5 months a rather attractive 23 year old female started working there.
It turns out that this girl was also a part time model.
This woman only took this job because she needed to make some quick money to go towards her trip overseas.
So after a few days of working there she started making eyes at "Fred". It turns out, quite obviously, that she found "Fred" rather appealing.
So, long story short, Fred waltzes over to her during one dinner break, they exchange phone numbers and end up having casual sex on and off until this girl leaves and went on her trip.
No harm done. No sexual harassment case. Just two consenting adults doing what's natural.
Anyway, that will do for now. I can't be fooked writing anymore.
Give it some thought, Freddo.