Smooth said:
Thats an intresting perspective, but when your naked there is nothing you can do, you can try to hide yourself and then look more absurd or stand proudly with confident and people will look and treat you differently- its all in the attitude.
Ill have to agree tho, hair does count for alot today, you can attract people with confident or change the way they perceive you, but there are things you CANT do, you cant get a hot girl into bed based on confident alone, you got to have the looks, and there are *some* bald people who can pull it off, sadly not all, so unless you are whiling to lower you standards significantly your doomed to life of misery .:devil:
I know this is from a while back, but its an interesting connection and I very much agree with Umans comments..
Smooth, this is the misery though. Its something that I always wondered - and will perhaps find out. The misery to me is that our standards dont just automatically lower. I can only fancy who I fancy. And I dont think thats going to change how much more ugly(bald) I become. I can imagine that it will lower slightly. But to actually lower my standards. I just could never do this. I am only jealous of the guy that can fancy a less than average gal. But come on, who really does.
I hate looking at older bald guys who have taken a grenade because they couldnt get any better. Once you become ugly enough, your standards change from how fit a girl you can get, to looking for any girl possible. I was in holiday recently, and my mums bf's friend came with his wife. Hes a horseshoe head. He was a weak pussy *** M*****F*****. His wife was ugly. I hate to say it. But she was. And she was bitter. I hated his guts. I hated him because he accepted 2nd best. I hated to think that that might well be me. And Im sorry to say all this horrible sh*t, but this hairloss is misery.
I refuse to ever take a grenade. I will only ever go out with a woman that I f****ing fancy. Otherwise ill be on my own. f*ck accepting something you dont even want that much, but just because its better than nothing, that shits f****ing weak..
You know.. Id even go further than saying being bald is like being naked. I would go as far to say, that in the same way as clothes, we are nothing without hair. We are not even human. Everything that we think we are - our names, our jobs, our personalities, these are all attachments, but its not what we really our. When we become bald we realise that we are nothing. that being a so called human just means thinking you are like that or this. I thought I was this guy. My hair looked like this. Now I am nothing. Im not even human.
Im not even depressed. But I realise when the time comes I may commit suicide. People may not understand what Im saying. But for me. the fun stops when I become ugly, when no girls want to be with me - when the world no longer has a place for a bald nobody. Then it will be misery. I will become what I hate and despise. Then I will kill myself.
