Would you date a bald girl?

[blackg]

I have given this a bit of thought.

I would definitely date a bald girl if she were into the same things I'm into:
- playing/listening to music
- the countryside
- animals

Sorry, mate. But I couldn't date a girl who's into animals.

 

[blackg]

The last girl I had sex with had two golden retrievers, a rabbit and a cat at her place.

I loved it, it was so cool to be woken up by the two dogs. What's wrong with women who like animals?

Cool.. I was just making a joke, Fred. About her being into animals. If you get my drift.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Cool.. I was just making a joke, Fred. About her being into animals. If you get my drift.

:uglylol:

 

[shookwun]

A lot of women wear hair extensions. the current chick i'm talking and seeing now spent $500 to get the strand-by-strand extensions.

but it's an option, and accessory to a existing style.


Bald is bald. Women don't look at wigs as being niche, it's not an option.


I reckon having less density, and your own locks is much more favorable then wearing hair. Masculine beauty should seem effortless for the most part

 

[hellouser]

You are making a sarcastic joke, but the very responses in this thread prove how silly and sad your comment is. There are a number of men here who have said they'd date a bald woman. Include me in that group. However obviously she'd have to be confident enough to communicate freely, smile and make eye contact, be a little sexy etc. It's hard to meet someone being very shy instead of being social and confident enough to communicate.

Do you know what confidence means?

 

[Rudiger]

Hellouser maybe you could stop being such a smug smartass 24/7 and just tell him what was wrong with his definition.

 

[hellouser]

Hellouser maybe you could stop being such a smug smartass 24/7 and just tell him what was wrong with his definition.

Excuse me?

 

[swingline747]

Yes, wigs. Different chick every night

 

[Rudiger]

Excuse me?

Sorry that was a bit much. But I am actually wondering, what was wrong with his definition of confidence? It does come off as smug though to just reply with "do you know what that means?" and pretty counter-productive as well, all you can do is wait for him to reply with "no, what does it mean?" which is pretty stupid really.

 

[hellouser]

Sorry that was a bit much. But I am actually wondering, what was wrong with his definition of confidence? It does come off as smug though to just reply with "do you know what that means?" and pretty counter-productive as well, all you can do is wait for him to reply with "no, what does it mean?" which is pretty stupid really.

Nobody has EVER given me a proper definition of what 'confidence' means. Everyone throws it around loosely and everyone has their own (ignorant) definition of it. So, I want to hear him out of what he thinks it means.

 

[Rudiger]

I see, if everyone's definition of it is ignorant, and no doubt you've heard many, are you basically saying it doesn't even exist as a thing?

For me it represents certainty, in decision making, in expressing yourself, being certain of what you're going to say, so you say it with belief and with eye contact. The opposite being unsure of yourself, can't make eye contact, not certain of the story you're telling, the joke you're making, the opinion you're stating, so it never comes out clearly or concisely.

Is this also ignorant?

 

[hellouser]

I see, if everyone's definition of it is ignorant, and no doubt you've heard many, are you basically saying it doesn't even exist as a thing?

For me it represents certainty, in decision making, in expressing yourself, being certain of what you're going to say, so you say it with belief and with eye contact. The opposite being unsure of yourself, can't make eye contact, not certain of the story you're telling, the joke you're making, the opinion you're stating, so it never comes out clearly or concisely.

Is this also ignorant?

You've got very broad willy-nilly definitions of it that could be applied to basically ANYTHING. And what you are describing isn't confidence either.

Going for a job interview? Be confident.
Wanna hook up with a girl? Be confident.
Need to make game winning shot? Be confident.

The word is bull**** 99% of the time. The simplest answer is usually the right one. Simply put:

CONFIDENCE IS A BYPRODUCT OF PREDICTABILITY.

Period.

 

[Rudiger]

You act as if it's the only word with a vague and ambiguous meaning, do you also take such a twitching issue with "belief"?

Just because you can apply a word to more than one situation doesn't mean it's bull****, and you don't exactly seem like a wordsmith to tell others what definitively is or isn't a definition, but I'll indulge anyway; what you described can be viewed as even more ambiguous than the 3 "bull****" examples before that, so I want you to be a bit more specific in what that actually means.

Job interview or hooking up with a girl; talking with certainty and eye contact, what I described. Making the game winning shot; OK I'll admit it's a completely different category, but it's certainty that you'll make that shot, not a doubt in your mind, and that's also what I described. You are basically saying confidence doesn't exist, which means the opposite can't exist, and that there is bull****.

 

[hellouser]

You act as if it's the only word with a vague and ambiguous meaning, do you also take such a twitching issue with "belief"?

Just because you can apply a word to more than one situation doesn't mean it's bull****, and you don't exactly seem like a wordsmith to tell others what definitively is or isn't a definition, but I'll indulge anyway; what you described can be viewed as even more ambiguous than the 3 "bull****" examples before that, so I want you to be a bit more specific in what that actually means.

Job interview or hooking up with a girl; talking with certainty and eye contact, what I described. Making the game winning shot; OK I'll admit it's a completely different category, but it's certainty that you'll make that shot, not a doubt in your mind, and that's also what I described. You are basically saying confidence doesn't exist, which means the opposite can't exist, and that there is bull****.

You're still wrong. You can't take a word and apply to any situation however you feel like. It's not a loose definition. But I know what you're trying to excuse; the fact that people feel the need to make others feel better about themselves through hardships, even if it's a lie. It's like telling a cancer patient to 'just be positive'... yeah, those cancer cells will REALLY take a different direction if I put on a fake or even genuine smile on my face! LOL.

It's insulting to the listener. Let's say you actually DO want to approach a girl... and someone says to you 'Be confident'. The hell does that mean? Confident in what? How? Confidence is an action now? A verb? Explain how does one 'be confident'? I've asked this many times to many people and each one has a different answer. A lot also just say 'be confident in yourself'... another VAGUE answer. I'm stunned at the level of blue pill ignorance with that word though... its infuriating. If it were a balding woman though, you'd never tell HER to be confident, would you? Nobody has ever said it to Evillocks... and there's a reason for it.

How about this guy, Rodrigo Alves... the human ken doll that's had so many plastic surgeries to his face that if you punched him it'd cost 100k to fix him. Check out one of his instagram photos and the caption:

Confidence in his own skin? Are you kidding me? That's not even his own skin... but if he's 'confident' now why wasn't he 'confident' before? Or could we just stop using the term as a bull**** term and getdown to brass tacks and say it like it is; HE WAS TOO ASHAMED BEFORE BECAUSE HE FELT UGLY. Had nothing to do with confidence... and funny, the only people that throw that word around like it has meaning to them are typically the ones that are a) gifted with the genetic lottery or b) delusional.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

That guy looks like Bryan Singer.

 

[Rudiger]

It's insulting to the listener. Let's say you actually DO want to approach a girl... and someone says to you 'Be confident'. The hell does that mean? Confident in what? How? Confidence is an action now? A verb? Explain how does one 'be confident'?

I've already said this:

For me it represents certainty, in decision making, in expressing yourself, being certain of what you're going to say, so you say it with belief and with eye contact. The opposite being unsure of yourself, can't make eye contact, not certain of the story you're telling, the joke you're making, the opinion you're stating, so it never comes out clearly or concisely.

You approach expressing yourself with certainty, not mumbling under your breath and looking away from her. Confidence is about self-belief and being certain of what you're going to say, what you're about, how you present yourself, express yourself (and to a certain extent you need to know what you're actually about otherwise you'll just come off as a bull**** artist).

Yes it's vague, it's a vague term, like many, like the previously mentioned "belief". Belief can be used interchangeably with confidence in many instances, and on top of that belief is even more ambiguous, or do you question the existence of it as well?

Now, fine if you want to reject what I'm saying, but it is as definitive and concise as you're going to get on a definition of the word. Ultimately it's about certainty.

You still haven't explained further on this "by-product of predictability" comment I've seen you write a handful of times on here, in fact I've never seen you explain it, you just say "That's IT. Period." and nobody cares enough to actually call it into question, and I didn't care enough up until now. But the irony that my and others definitions are so vague and useless yet you seem to be avoiding explaining yours any further, is it TOO vague?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

If I go to the shop to buy goods, I'm confident that my credit card will be approved, due to prior experiences of it always being approved.

But it's not my confidence that causes my credit card to be approved.

 

[hellouser]

I've already said this:



You approach expressing yourself with certainty, not mumbling under your breath and looking away from her. Confidence is about self-belief and being certain of what you're going to say, what you're about, how you present yourself, express yourself (and to a certain extent you need to know what you're actually about otherwise you'll just come off as a bull**** artist).

Yes it's vague, it's a vague term, like many, like the previously mentioned "belief". Belief can be used interchangeably with confidence in many instances, and on top of that belief is even more ambiguous, or do you question the existence of it as well?

Now, fine if you want to reject what I'm saying, but it is as definitive and concise as you're going to get on a definition of the word. Ultimately it's about certainty.

You still haven't explained further on this "by-product of predictability" comment I've seen you write a handful of times on here, in fact I've never seen you explain it, you just say "That's IT. Period." and nobody cares enough to actually call it into question, and I didn't care enough up until now. But the irony that my and others definitions are so vague and useless yet you seem to be avoiding explaining yours any further, is it TOO vague?

So confidence is now synonymous with 'certainty' ?? So if a guy approaches a girl, he just has to speak with certainty? LOL, what the hell does that even mean? You say that its so a guy doesnt appear mumbling... so, WEIRD? Anti-social? Shy? Perhaps inexperienced? Why dont you just tell the guy not to appear like a social deviant? Or did you mean to say a guy should be assertive? That's an easier term to understand! Just GO for it! Be ASSERTIVE! Show initiative! SIMPLE easy terms that even an elementary kid could understand without being LIED to!

And the byproduct definition relates to history. If you've struck out 100 times in a row with women, you can be 'confident' you'll strike out again given your past. Not hard understand confidence for what it really is. I don't understand why you'd complicate things by throwing around the word as all encompassing... like this:

http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Confident

My god.. such a loose term! But I see right through these explanations.

 

[Rudiger]

So confidence is now synonymous with 'certainty' ?? So if a guy approaches a girl, he just has to speak with certainty? LOL, what the hell does that even mean? You say that its so a guy doesnt appear mumbling... so, WEIRD? Anti-social? Shy? Perhaps inexperienced? Why dont you just tell the guy not to appear like a social deviant? Or did you mean to say a guy should be assertive? That's an easier term to understand! Just GO for it! Be ASSERTIVE! Show initiative! SIMPLE easy terms that even an elementary kid could understand without being LIED to!

The LOLs and caps lock words are making you look desperate and scrambling, it's not properly satirising my point to just keep repeating yourself. And showing the bull**** ways Rodrigo or wikihow's use the word incorrectly isn't helping to prove anything either, it doesn't add to anything.

You can use "assertive" in the instance of approaching someone sure, "certainty" covers all the bases; of decision making; which is confidence in yourself, in speaking to someone; certainty of what you're saying and how you're expressing your point, and the game winning point; certainty in your abilities. You have used a word to properly define how confidence is used in terms of personally talking to someone, well done, you have proven my point except given a less concise definition. It isn't incorrect, just less concise.

It's not just expression (as in, not mumbling) but more importantly it's the content of what you're saying, in getting across clearly what your intentions are and why you're there in the first place. You can keep going LOLWTFISTHAT?! but you know rightly what I'm saying, and you can keep stubbornly playing dumb but the definitions are very clear at this point.

 

[RhinestoneHLT]

If she wore wigs I would.

if not then absolutely not.

just being honest.