Notcoolanymore
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I knew a few women that were like that...until they met me.
Would you date a bald girl?
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I knew a few women that were like that...until they met me.
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I.D WALKER
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Thanks for the video Paris, I wasn't sure whether to laugh or cry (haha! sob-sob!)
Do we even know yet CB's overall potential? I'm looking forward to seeing more "experimenters" b/a pics.-)
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just wonder how inferior will be bald + bald offsprings
something like this I guess http://imgur.com/WWW8GvY (guy from the left)
just mature NW3 + eyebags at 10-12 years = looking 30 years old
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something like this I guess http://imgur.com/WWW8GvY (guy from the left)
just mature NW3 + eyebags at 10-12 years = looking 30 years old
:sulkoff:
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He'll be fine if he's confident. Confident in... whatever.
yetti
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I love the selection bias here. It's a long thread with many guys saying they'd date a bald woman, and some saying they wouldn't. You choose one saying they wouldn't, no matter what, as proof of your personal ...war or whatever it is stating that "confidence" is no help at all. It seems that every time you post it's about "confidence" so obviously it strikes a chord with you.
So what's your bottom line? That it's irrelevant how one acts and feels? A balding, unconfident person who stays home is as likely to date as a balding man or woman with confidence (pretend or real) going out and trying his or her luck? The feeling that another person is "confident" is not something people are attracted to, it's not part of the makeup of a charismatic person? Or... what? I ask not to be argumentative, but I really don't get it.
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He seems quite tall, his bones are well developed and face is well build as well.
So, maybe he will be a new FredTheBelgium as he says he is tall and attractive but bald.
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No bias here, just pointing out how ridiculous the 'confidence' claim is.
Bottom line is it doesn't matter. What are you trying to say, that confidence includes persona, eye contact, body language, choice of words, clothing style, posture, initiative........ shall I go on?
This whole confidence crap is just a loose word to apply to everything whenever you just want to say to someone NOT to screw things up. It's vague and many of you guys apply it without any thought.
Perhaps what you MEAN to say is 'BE COMPETENT, NOT CONFIDENT'?
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He even haven't any single chance. He will never have hair longer than 1cm. Just imagine him while puberty - he surely will go to NW5-6 before 18.
shookwun
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iv'e always felt that confidence is more or less just having the necessary experience to feel comfortable in your own shoes. At first our movements are in training wheels, but eventually we take them off, and are good at any social gathering, and hobby.
It might be easier to say acquire experience, because that's essentially what people are saying. 'be comfortable around women'
Being comfortable, and content around others comes fromeexperiences, and reassurance in your capabilities.
The more you socialize, and have sex the more experience in return value is returned out of it.
Sex reinforces value which in return creates experience, and 'confidence'
get outside your comfort zone I guess
It might be easier to say acquire experience, because that's essentially what people are saying. 'be comfortable around women'
Being comfortable, and content around others comes fromeexperiences, and reassurance in your capabilities.
The more you socialize, and have sex the more experience in return value is returned out of it.
Sex reinforces value which in return creates experience, and 'confidence'
get outside your comfort zone I guess
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I don't want to be Fred the Belgian's advocate (he has enough here) but he is not "bald": after a FUE hair transplant he has a "shaven" hairstyle that most people would believe is PRE-loss, not POST-loss. I believe it is one of a kind because hair transplant rarely gives you the possibility to shave, for a series of reasons...
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As I remember he was NW4+ for a while.
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Key word: experience.
You don't get confidence out of thin air. Some rookie inexperienced kid going in for his first job interview doesnt have 'confidence'... that shit is BUILT. It's based on past performance which you can then be confident of how things will turn out. Score 5 job offers in a single week? Yeah, you can be confident that you'll get more. Make the game winning shot? Yeah, you can be confident that you'll do it again next time.
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This is the only confidence that I appreciate.
"confidence" based on the idea you _must_ feel confident to succeed is totally irrelevant to me.
yetti
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No of course not. You think that "you guys" don't understand the meaning of the word, and you're wrong about that. And because you can't get past this condescending idea, that adults here don't understand the meaning of a simple word, you just say the same thing again and again.
2 guys are in a job interview. They are both asked "how well can you do this job"? Guy A looks at his shoes and says "Pretty well I guess." Obviously not confident that he can do the job. He's just not sure. Guy B makes eye contact with the interviewers and says "I'm confident that I can exceed your expectations and do very well". Who do you think gets the job? ... This says nothing about "competence", except to the extent that perhaps the more confident guy is more competent. But who knows, really? What we do know is that he's more confident (even if it's just an act, it doesn't matter- what matters is how he's perceived), and that's attractive to people.
But what you are not getting is that confidence can be faked, and if it comes off as real confidence then who cares if it's fake or not? Game winning shot, of course if you miss, you miss. But coming off as confident can get you a job, or a date. Staring at your shoes nervously cannot. You want to talk about REAL confidence, but what the conversation is really about is PERCEIVED confidence. Not "how do you become truly confident", but rather, "can it help you if others perceive that you are confident". Huge difference. Every political candidate expresses confidence that he or she will win, and then be an incredible president, at every possible moment. What difference does it make if Trump, Clinton, the rest of them are "actually" confident? It's irrelevant what's going on in their heads, as far as getting votes goes. What's entirely relevant is how they are perceived.
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I saw that pic and I doubt he was scoring with that baldness. But things seem to have improved for him.
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The guy that says 'pretty well I guess' wouldnt have the confidence because he doesnt feel competent/sure of himself. No shit. The guy that says 'im confident that i can exceed...' has to be sure of himself BASED ON something.... and what's that? EXPERIENCE.
It's predictable.
*EDIT: If he's lying/putting up an act, than that's a whole different issue... might as well just lie through your teeth all the way through life and trick people into thinking your some kind of consistent success story.
yetti
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Of course people put up an act. In a job interview, you think it's somehow shameful to portray yourself as being sure that you can do a good job, even if you're privately nervous? You are saying that you should say, well, I'm not confident I can do it? Without EXPERIENCE, we should not ever act confident?
shookwun
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It's all relative to experience, and nothing more.
You attack the problem head on. In return you may fail or succeed but the result is experience in your own capabilities.
Getting rid of fear, doubt, anxiety, and tention through real life situations, and scenarios will make you more confident in your abilities.
go tell a boxer to be confident! dellusion. How is going to articulate his skills if he's never been hit, knocked down and put others in the same situation. Should he take zumba, and shadow box.. teach him to be 'confident'
Socializing is a skill. KNowing how to articulate your skills, and present ideas... is largely influenced by environment, and experience, Also genetics. You cannot be 'confident with a women' unless you go through trial and error. Fail, succeed and acquire experience through different scenarios.
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You attack the problem head on. In return you may fail or succeed but the result is experience in your own capabilities.
Getting rid of fear, doubt, anxiety, and tention through real life situations, and scenarios will make you more confident in your abilities.
go tell a boxer to be confident! dellusion. How is going to articulate his skills if he's never been hit, knocked down and put others in the same situation. Should he take zumba, and shadow box.. teach him to be 'confident'
Socializing is a skill. KNowing how to articulate your skills, and present ideas... is largely influenced by environment, and experience, Also genetics. You cannot be 'confident with a women' unless you go through trial and error. Fail, succeed and acquire experience through different scenarios.
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