Would you date a bald girl?

[Folliman]

Since I'm an hetero girl I'll just adapt the original question to my case and reformulate it as "would you date a bald(ing) guy ?"
The answer is yes, if there is some chemestry and if I'm attracted (but that two points apply to everyone anyway). An additional reason would be that he knows what it's like, and unless he's like my dad who never gave a single **** about his own hair loss (way too busy, plus he had the right features to pull it out), he would not overlook how ****ed up it is.

Plus there would be much experimental topical cooking sessions and let's admit that it's more exciting than ****ing omelettes :

Good point, I never thought of that. If I get a girlfriend who is as obsessed with her hair as I am with mine, there would be a lot of weird bonding making topicals. The idea is actually really appealing to me.

 

[Roberto_72]

That's true, many women even "hot" ones aren't into sex, it was a surprise to me but it explains why some of them don't have a boyfriend even in their 30's. When you see a really good looking chick with a guy that's not even close to being in her league you may start to wonder if he's getting anything other than a glorified trophy.

In my experience, a lot of women are not into sex... IF with the same guy for a long time! It is - from what I read - an evolutionary tactic. Apparently four years was, in primitive societies, the time needed by a woman to get to know a suitable male, mate and grow the kid a little. After that, on to new adventures! We "modern" societies invented lifelong marriage. And then we invented divorce.

It is perfectly natural that women (not all of them, of course!) are tired of sex after some years with the Same person. We just need to admit it as a society: monogamy might be a travesty for a lot of men AND a lot of women.

 

[I.D WALKER]

Yes most of are drawn to who/what we find attractive. Not all
can hold their mutual interest for long once the shiny seal that originally compelled them is torn open.
If our looks are the lure that draws us together,
One might wonder what is it that makes one/both of us hurl the prized catch back into the rocky, same shallow waters?

 

[lickawrist]

In my experience, a lot of women are not into sex... IF with the same guy for a long time! It is - from what I read - an evolutionary tactic. Apparently four years was, in primitive societies, the time needed by a woman to get to know a suitable male, mate and grow the kid a little. After that, on to new adventures! We "modern" societies invented lifelong marriage. And then we invented divorce.

It is perfectly natural that women (not all of them, of course!) are tired of sex after some years with the Same person. We just need to admit it as a society: monogamy might be a travesty for a lot of men AND a lot of women.

Never planned on getting married. That type of commitment is too much work for me lol Then again, my opinion is probably bound to change in the next 5 years xD

 

[xetudor]

Yes.

 

[parisienne]

Never planned on getting married. That type of commitment is too much work for me lol Then again, my opinion is probably bound to change in the next 5 years xD

LOL same, but add 5 more years.

@Folliman : It's all about taking the **** the universe is throwing at our faces and make lemonade out of it.

 

[buckthorn]

In my experience, a lot of women are not into sex... IF with the same guy for a long time! It is - from what I read - an evolutionary tactic. Apparently four years was, in primitive societies, the time needed by a woman to get to know a suitable male, mate and grow the kid a little. After that, on to new adventures! We "modern" societies invented lifelong marriage. And then we invented divorce.

It is perfectly natural that women (not all of them, of course!) are tired of sex after some years with the Same person. We just need to admit it as a society: monogamy might be a travesty for a lot of men AND a lot of women.

In terms of evolution, perhaps... but I don't entirely agree with this in modern society. Emotion is involved. Is a woman falls in love with you and you go out of your way to keep the sex interesting, then it will be all good.

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It's all about taking the **** the universe is throwing at our faces and make lemonade out of it.

hahaha... the "language barrier" just became super cute.

 

[parisienne]

Miessing up with the idioms just because I can

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Parisienne, I bet it would be a creative blast jamming with you. Whether the setting finds you by the counter hunched over a cutting board or rummaging through the spice cupboards in search of palatial culinary perfection or formulating some strange hair growth brew down inside the subterranean recesses of your alchemy lab.
-)

ID, do you want to build a CB lab ? Dead serious !

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[dralex]

In short no. But if she wore a good wig then I couldn't care less whether she is balding. And I know it sounds really cynical as a male who is fairly insecure going bald, but I find it fairly unattractive in women to be balding. We have come really far in hair pieces for women. And in all honesty I could not care less whether a woman is wearing a good wig or has naturally great hair. Most black women that have really good hair are actually hair wearing weaves and wigs, and I think many of these women look pretty damn good. So if she is walking around with a clearly balding head, then I find that pretty unattractive, but if she is balding and wears a good wig or hair weaves then I would be perfectly fine dating hair.

 

[hellouser]

In short no. But if she wore a good wig then I couldn't care less. And I know it sounds really cynical as a male who is fairly insecure going bald, but I find it fairly unattractive in women to be balding. We have come really far in hair pieces for women. And in all honesty I could not care less whether she is wearing a wig or not. Most black women that have really good hair are actually wearing weaves and wigs, and I think many of these women look pretty damn good.

What if she's really 'confident' ??

 

[parisienne]

In short no. But if she wore a good wig then I couldn't care less. And I know it sounds really cynical as a male who is fairly insecure going bald, but I find it fairly unattractive in women to be balding. We have come really far in hair pieces for women. And in all honesty I could not care less whether she is wearing a wig or not. Most black women that have really good hair are actually wearing weaves and wigs, and I think many of these women look pretty damn good.

Yes, they do. Despite that Kylie chick claiming she has started the trend, they've been using it for something like 3 generations. Actually wigs do have interesting and long history as we can trace back their use to Antiquity.

 

[buckthorn]

What if she's really 'confident' ??

hahaha... I think I subconsciously want a balding woman because it would alleviate the insecurity caused by my own balding. uke:

 

[dralex]

Absolutely No...
Because ...


In India ..I only saw only one bald Women..
And that of age 45 above..

I am highly social person..
But never seen more than one bald women..

Remember.. My state has population more than 100 million people..still I never seen more than one..

WTF? I see Indian women balding more than any other race. To be fair they are all probably over 35. Maybe it is just the one's in the USA, but I find that doubtful.

 

[nameless]

I don't want to believe I would reject a woman for something, anything, that is not her fault.

 

[buckthorn]

I don't want to believe I would reject a woman for something, anything, that is not her fault.

Nameless is a good dude.

 

[dralex]

What if she's really 'confident' ??

Still wouldn't care. For men balding young I consider fairly normal as media portrays many "attractive" young men with short buzz cuts and bald heads now, but I have grown up with media portraying beautiful women having gorgeous hair and that is just what I find attractive. Whether society has shaped my views or whether I am genetically attracted to women with great hair is hard to say, but I would say the society we grow up in has a much greater influence on what we find attractive than we think. I also love playing with women's hair when I am getting physical with them, and am horrored by the thought of rubbing their bald head instead haha (even though I know that wouldn't happen). May just be because I am pretty young (22), but I am not attracted to bald women and don't see that changing any time soon. As I stated though, if she is wearing a good wig, I wouldn't really care, as many wigs women wear look and feel identical to real hair and often look even better.

 

[hellouser]

What if she's really 'confident' ??

Still wouldn't care.

LOL!

And that's how the cookie crumbles.

 

[hellouser]

The moral is, don't judge a book by it's cover!

Thing is, we know that. We all know that. The problem is that fullheads and vast majority dont.

 

[shookwun]

Also, if you were balding it would be the very same thing you hate most. Essentially you would feel bad, and hate your partner in one way or another.


I can't see myself being comfortable dating a chick who experiencing my very own demise.






It's quite routine to find partners who have characteristics that you lack, and hate. I would want my women to have good hair, to help provide my off spring with the very same thing I lack.

 

[Hairon]

Also, if you were balding it would be the very same thing you hate most. Essentially you would feel bad, and hate your partner in one way or another.


I can't see myself being comfortable dating a chick who experiencing my very own demise.






It's quite routine to find partners who have characteristics that you lack, and hate. I would want my women to have good hair, to help provide my off spring with the very same thing I lack.

You see, the thing is about genes is that there is no 100% to anything, it's weird how it works, your parents have non-active genes that might become active in your offspring, your two parents might have full heads of hair, but you'd get bald because one of your grandparents/ uncles was bald.
both of my parents are short, but I'm 6'2, and when I look back, my grandparents from my mother side are average, yet her uncles and cousins are all above average in height, that is the only possible source to where I got my height from as my father's family are all below average in height.

so there is no guarantee to anything, you might find a girl with good hair, but still carries an inactive bald gene from her parents, grandparents, or who knows who in the family.

it also reminds me of how humans want to have sex with the opposite sex that looks like they carry good genes, like high testosterone and all that.
and how Sadvegeta said that if you're ugly or bald and all that, you shouldn't have kids, you shouldn't pass on your ****ty genes.

I have seen many very good looking people, model levels, that their parents are FUGLY, or not good looking at best, yet their son/daugter look like a greek god
how does that make sense? genes are tricky.