Would You Date A Woman Who Wears A Wig?

[CopeForLife]

majority of people skips nameless posts due to FCKING WALL of text, right?

 

[nameless]

majority of people skips nameless posts due to FCKING WALL of text, right?

Ok I'll make an effort to shorten them. I wouldn't want to overexert your brain muscle.

 

[EvilLocks]

A woman truly cares about something when it concerns HER, and shows "real empathy" only for conditions which affect HER.

Girls are eager to mock bald people, but when they suffer from baldness, they want respect, empathy and support. I'm not sorry for balding women at all, quite the opposite.

You're a douchebag, you know that?

 

[EvilLocks]

I've tried to understand you and show empathy towards you but now I'm really losing what little respect I had for you. You're a bitter, angry and miserable person with no empathy towards anyone except yourself.

 

[dralex]

Ive been dealing with hair loss for about a year. It started off at Telogen Effluvium but now I'm told I also have Androgenetic Alopecia, which sucks! Losing her hair for a woman is quite traumatic (as it is for men) but since female baldness isn't as common and socially accepted, it causes us a lot of distress, depression and worrying about what will happen. I'm still in the very early stages (nobody can see my hair loss) and currently fighting it with Rogaine. Im single and its been hard for me to want to date since all this started. I feel very, very self conscious. I think about possibly wearing supplemental hair (topper or wig) in the future but was wondering how men felt about it. What would be your reaction if you found out that the woman you're dating wears a wig/topper?

I also would like to add that as far as I'm
concerned a guys hair doesn't matter to me at all. In fact, I dated a super attractive guy who was completely bald. Never had an issue with it.

I am a 22 year old male and wouldn't care at all if the girl I was dating was wearing a wig. As long as the wig is a very good wig. You can buy wigs these days that are almost impossible to tell that they are not real hair (can cost like $10k though). One of my mom's friends when I was younger (like 10 or 11), I thought was like the hottest mom I had ever seen. Recently my mom told me that she wears a wig and has been for a long time, and I would have never guessed that. I am pretty sure a majority of black women wear wigs because their hair is naturally very frizzy.
That is the one area it is shittier for guys losing hair. I know it is more acceptable for a man to lose his hair (not so much when you are really young), but it is completely unacceptable for guys to wear wigs, and if a guy gets found out he will be the laughing stock of his friend group/family.
One area of caution though, do NOT buy a cheap wig. I have seen some black women that wear cheap $20 looking wigs and they are pretty obvious. Invest a good amount of money in it as it is a pretty big aspect of your appearance.

 

[EvilLocks]

I do my best

People like you deserve to be alone and miserable in my opinion. You have no sympathy from me.

 

[Joan]

hahaha.. this is hilarious.. but I am serious. Joan is a REAL woman.

Buckthorn, that is so sweet, but I'm sure that my hypochondria at times would make any guy run far, far away. I'm also sure that if you fast forward 20 or 30 years, the young women you guys are encountering today will become every bit the woman I try to be, and I would bet many would be even better.

 

[EvilLocks]

I didn't mention you, I didn't ask you anything and I didn't expect anything from you.

Ignore me and leave me be.

As a balding woman, you did address me. But that's alright, I'll leave you to your miserable existence from now on. With pleasure.

 

[dralex]

Hair systems look real

keyword LOOK


They do not feel real. especially with a mane shorter then 3 inches.

Feels like bristles.


it's all smoke and mirrors. All though a long hair system on a women will feel real


You will still wear a hat every where you go, especially during the day time. The sun rekts havoc on a system, and within days will change the color. From my experience at least. I had a wig that went from dark brown to dirty blonde from being exposed to 1 hour a day of sun light. Granted I used UV protection spray, it did nothing.

So you will be a hat prisoner by day, exposed wig by night

Woman hair systems are completely different than men's. Many of them look and feel real. They have waaaaay more options for women. AND most importantly it is actually acceptable for a women to wear a hair system, while it is not for a man.

 

[Joan]

[QUOTE="FredTheBelgian, post: 1347487, member: 16776"


Also, love does not exist.[/QUOTE]
Why do you believe that, Fred? Have you not known even one couple in love?

 

[nameless]

People like you deserve to be alone and miserable in my opinion. You have no sympathy from me.

The problem with him IS that he IS alone. He needs less of this not more of it. It's getting to him. Sure he shouldn't say cruel stuff but I really think that's just the disease talking. He's probably the sweetest guy in the world when he's happy.

 

[EvilLocks]

The problem with him IS that he IS alone. He needs less of this not more of it. It's getting to him. Sure he shouldn't say cruel stuff but I really think that's just the disease talking. He's probably the sweetest guy in the world when he's happy.

I'll believe it when I see it I do feel sorry for the guy though, but not for the reasons you might think.

 

[Joan]

I agree. He's not my boyfriend yet though, we're just talking at this stage. We haven't even had sex yet. But I'm not planning on telling him soon, but I fear he might find out when he runs his fingers through "my" hair, and feels the mesh that the extensions are attached to underneath. I don't know what I'm going to do if that happens...

Would you prefer a guy tell you within, say, a couple of dates that he's wearing a wig or further into the relationship?

 

[EvilLocks]

Would you prefer a guy tell you within, say, a couple of dates that he's wearing a wig or further into the relationship?

I don't know, I don't care really. But it wouldn't matter to me as long as the wig looked natural. In some way I'd actually prefer to date a man wearing a piece, because that would give us something in common to bond over.

 

[nameless]

Another negative thing about balding people trying to pair off with people who have their hair is whether or not a balding person can really keep up with the people who have their hair? When I tried hairpieces I met a guy at a hairpiece salon who would go there with his gf. He is the one who had the hairpiece. She had her hair. She wanted to go out partying all the time and do the party romance scene, which is very fun when both people have their hair and are attractive.

But since he was balding and wearing a hairpiece he wanted his romantic life to be more quiet with only a few parties but mostly just the two of them with a few friends and family. He wanted quieter parties with more reserved people and less people while she wanted rip-roaring parties where lot of people have a ball. He could not keep up with what she wanted and ultimately they divorced.

It seems to me like the relationship might have worked if she had wanted the same lifestyle that he wanted AND if she was also dealing with hair loss then she would have probably wanted the same lifestyle that he wanted.

 

[Joan]

That aside, I think all balding people, both men and women, should face the reality that they will probably get greater understanding and patience from people who are also balding. They should romantically pair off with each other the same way that most racial minority persons are pairing off with people who are the same minority race as themselves.

I don't think a lot of balding women will sympathize with you because they'll say you can just shave your head.

 

[Joan]

I don't know, I don't care really. But it wouldn't matter to me as long as the wig looked natural. In some way I'd actually prefer to date a man wearing a piece, because that would give us something in common to bond over.

I'm just asking because you're wondering when you should tell a guy about your extensions. Maybe switching places will help with your decision. EvilLocks, so many women without hair loss wear extensions today, and it's acceptable. I love shookwun's post, and there's no reason to think a guy who cares about you, or is just attracted to you, won't do the same thing and think nothing of it like he did.

 

[EvilLocks]

I'm just asking because you're wondering when you should tell a guy about your extensions. Maybe switching places will help with your decision. EvilLocks, so many women without hair loss wear extensions today, and it's acceptable. I love shookwun's post, and there's no reason to think a guy who cares about you, or is just attracted to you, won't do the same thing and think nothing of it like he did.

Maybe I should just start picking up guys at my hair replacement salon lol... It would actually be a huge relief to me if my boyfriend also wore a piece.

 

[CopeForLife]

I'm just asking because you're wondering when you should tell a guy about your extensions. Maybe switching places will help with your decision. EvilLocks, so many women without hair loss wear extensions today, and it's acceptable. I love shookwun's post, and there's no reason to think a guy who cares about you, or is just attracted to you, won't do the same thing and think nothing of it like he did.

I remember how I was surprised to find disconnected hair extension mount during sex... And she didn't have any problem with hairs, just for extra density I think. Never detect these things in real life tho.

 

[nameless]

I'm just asking because you're wondering when you should tell a guy about your extensions. Maybe switching places will help with your decision. EvilLocks, so many women without hair loss wear extensions today, and it's acceptable. I love shookwun's post, and there's no reason to think a guy who cares about you, or is just attracted to you, won't do the same thing and think nothing of it like he did.

So are you saying that a guy with his hair who barely even knows her is going to say "wow this is really cool" when he sees her without her hair early in the relationship? Whatever. When I had my hair I wouldn't have and I'm nice. If it was early in the relationship before I was in love with her I would have probably just stopped seeing her without letting her know why. She would have felt crushed and I wouldn't have even known it. I'm sorry but it's true.

When those guys I knew were conducting those wicked "pig parties" I'm the guy who got them to stop it. It was nothing to me but lots of guys looked up to me because I could get lots of women and I used those guy's respect for me to get them to stop it. I'm telling you that I was universally thought of as the nice one and back when I had my hair I would have stopped seeing a woman if I saw her without hair early in the relationship. Men and women are not the exact same when it comes to how we react to stuff and it's not the exact same when a woman doesn't have hair as it is when a man doesn't have hair.