Would You Date A Woman Who Wears A Wig?

[nameless]

I remember how I was surprised to find disconnected hair extension mount during sex... And she didn't have any problem with hairs, just for extra density I think. Never detect these things in real life tho.

It's not the same if a woman has all her hair and uses hair system to get a little thickening to look sexier versus if a woman is using a hair system to augment major hair loss from a hair disease. You're comparing apples and oranges.

 

[Joan]

So are you saying that a guy with hair who barely even knows her is going to say "wow this is really cool" when he sees what she looks like without her hair early in the relationship?

She said she doesn't plan on letting anyone see her without her extensions. Also, she is far from bald. Shookwun didn't seem to mind, and he has no trouble getting women. He can be picky.

 

[Joan]

Maybe I should just start picking up guys at my hair replacement salon lol... It would actually be a huge relief to me if my boyfriend also wore a piece.

Maybe the men's hair loss forums can get together with the women's hair loss forums. I'd be into that if I were single.

 

[nameless]

She said she doesn't plan on letting anyone see her without her extensions. Also, she is far from bald. Shookwun didn't seem to mind, and he has no trouble getting women. He can be picky.

And is that realistic Joan? Is it realistic for a balding woman in the early part of a relationship to plan on keeping up with a man who has his hair and she does not? They have two different realities. I think it COULD work but the odds of it working are not as good as it would be if she got together with a man in her same reality. Again, there is a reason why the overwhelming majority of racial minority persons get together with people who are the same racial minority as themselves.

 

[hellouser]

Maybe the men's hair loss forums can get together with the women's hair loss forums. I'd be into that if I were single.

Won't happen. Evillocks tried reaching out to them about the fundraiser to send me to Miami for the hair congress; none of them bothered. It seems like they'd rather collect sympathy points than solutions.

Personally, I'd rather not associate with lazy people. They dont contribute much so we'd be better off without them.

 

[EvilLocks]

Maybe the men's hair loss forums can get together with the women's hair loss forums. I'd be into that if I were single.

Haha, that would be awesome Too bad many of us live in different countries.

 

[EvilLocks]

She said she doesn't plan on letting anyone see her without her extensions. Also, she is far from bald. Shookwun didn't seem to mind, and he has no trouble getting women. He can be picky.

Well, that is an overstatement If you saw the state of my bio hair you'd agree

 

[nameless]

Maybe I should just start picking up guys at my hair replacement salon lol... It would actually be a huge relief to me if my boyfriend also wore a piece.

Why are you talking about picking up guyS? I hope you're kidding. Why don't you just talk to those guys at the salon and see if anything happens with ONE of them over time? Maybe one of them has more potential than you realized before because you just go in there to take care of your hair and get out of there. Just try to make friends and something might happen on its' own.

 

[Joan]

And is that realistic Joan? Is it realistic for a balding woman in the early part of a relationship to plan on keeping up with a man who has his hair and she does not? They have two different realities. I think it COULD work but the odds of it working are not as good as it would be if she got together with a man in her same reality. Again, there is a reason why the overwhelming majority of racial minority persons get together with people who are the same racial minority as themselves.

She is far from bald right now. She has no way of knowing how far and how quickly her hair loss will progress. Also, just about every middle-aged woman I see has noticeable hair loss, and I've seen plenty who have husbands with more hair than they do. Almost all the old women I see have major scalp showing. My 82-year-old mother has less hair than her 90-year-old boyfriend. Their husbands aren't leaving them. Personally, I wouldn't be caught dead in public if my hair looked like some of theirs does. EvilLocks has been called a 10. She's not just your average-looking woman. She's modeled. Do you seriously think every guy with a full head of hair who is looking for a relationship will be turned off by her?

 

[nameless]

I don't think a lot of balding women will sympathize with you because they'll say you can just shave your head.

I'm single-handedly the ultimate reason to make hairpieces on men fashionable.

 

[Joan]

Won't happen. Evillocks tried reaching out to them about the fundraiser to send me to Miami for the hair congress; none of them bothered. It seems like they'd rather collect sympathy points than solutions.

Personally, I'd rather not associate with lazy people. They dont contribute much so we'd be better off without them.

I believe some of them got nasty too. Few offered to contact hair loss researchers as well.

 

[hellouser]

I believe some of them got nasty too. Few offered to contact hair loss researchers as well.

They got nasty? LOL.... WHY!?!?!

 

[Joan]

Well, that is an overstatement If you saw the state of my bio hair you'd agree

I just sent you some pictures of my sad temples. Maybe you'll feel a little better. I doubt I'd have enough hair for an integrated system; plus, I shed too many hairs, and it'd just be a mess. But truthfully, there are women worse off than I am at the moment. My hair looks crappy, but at least it's still all mine. Also, my hair was average thickness at best, and my ends were always stringy, unlike yours was. Maybe people notice your hair loss more because you were known for having beautiful hair.

 

[Joan]

They got nasty? LOL.... WHY!?!?!

One or more of them quoted some negative comments about women from guys here. EvilLocks and I tried to reason with them, to no avail. One of them I called a schoolyard bully--just so mean. Maybe EvilLocks remembers more of the details. The thread was quickly removed.

 

[Aldrich]

I would. Incidentally, I'm a hardcore red-pill man, so I probably won't get into a situation with a woman either way. Disclaimer: red-pill long before hairloss.

 

[nameless]

I just sent you some pictures of my sad temples. Maybe you'll feel a little better. I doubt I'd have enough hair for an integrated system; plus, I shed too many hairs, and it'd just be a mess. But truthfully, there are women worse off than I am at the moment. My hair looks crappy, but at least it's still all mine. Also, my hair was average thickness at best, and my ends were always stringy, unlike yours was. Maybe people notice your hair loss more because you were known for having beautiful hair.

Your situation is not the same as her situation though. I think she is looking at her situation through the lens of a single woman who wants romantic happiness whereas you are looking at HER situation through your lens of a happily married woman who is secure in a relationship with a man that loves her. I think you are thinking of HER hair loss in the context of YOUR situation. I think it would be better to put her hair loss into her situation.

 

[hellouser]

One or more of them quoted some negative comments about women from guys here. EvilLocks and I tried to reason with them, to no avail. One of them I called a schoolyard bully--just so mean. Maybe EvilLocks remembers more of the details. The thread was quickly removed.

Is there a mailing address where I can send them a Hallmark card with a pre-written quote about my sympathy and apologies for them?

 

[EvilLocks]

They got nasty? LOL.... WHY!?!?!

I remember, I wrote something in the lines of "I hope those women get their head out their a*ses and donate", lol. Then one of the women on HerAlopecia saw it and went into a rage; I apologized but she was still angry and then told all the women on HerAlopecia to not donate. LOL.

 

[hellouser]

I remember, I wrote something in the lines of "I hope those women get their head out their a*ses and donate", lol. Then one of the women on HerAlopecia saw it and went into a rage; I apologized but she was still angry and then told all the women on HerAlopecia to not donate. LOL.

LOL, those are some seriously weak kneed women. Meh, their loss.

 

[nameless]

She is far from bald right now. She has no way of knowing how far and how quickly her hair loss will progress. Also, just about every middle-aged woman I see has noticeable hair loss, and I've seen plenty who have husbands with more hair than they do. Almost all the old women I see have major scalp showing. My 82-year-old mother has less hair than her 90-year-old boyfriend. Their husbands aren't leaving them. Personally, I wouldn't be caught dead in public if my hair looked like some of theirs does. EvilLocks has been called a 10. She's not just your average-looking woman. She's modeled. Do you seriously think every guy with a full head of hair who is looking for a relationship will be turned off by her?

No I don't think every guy with a full head of hair will reject her. I never said that. I always said that the best odds of happiness for her lies with her getting together with a man who shares her reality. I think I have a valid point. I also do think that some men who have their hair would be very happy with her or YOU for that matter. Some guys are just that sensitive.

But I'm talking about the odds here and mate selection involves risk. One can get hurt whenever one puts one's self on the line to get involved with someone else. Do you think there's a greater likelihood a woman with significant hair loss, and maybe losing more hair, would get hurt by a man with hair or a man also missing hair? With which one is she more likely to get understanding and patience?

The odds for her to have happiness long term with a man are in her favor if she gets together with a man who shares her reality. The odds for her to have happiness long term are against her if she gets together with a man who has no chance of understanding her reality. And the people with hair have no chance of understanding OUR reality. And as evidence to this I offer the fact that none of us had any concerns for the hardships of bald people until we ourselves found ourselves balding. People with their hair are not concerned with our reality because our reality is not their reality. But if balding people get together with other people who are balding then they will be getting instant and automatic understanding and empathy. This could have a profound positive impact on how the relationship plays out.

I'll say it again, there's a reason why most racial minority persons get together with other people in their same racial group.