Was anyone else here a loser even before hair loss?

[seb]

i have a feeling me and seb look the same, really wierd bald, except im 5 5 though so its sucks 10x worse for me.

i have no idea how the f*ck guys in their 20s are suppose to lead dating lives like this.

i can only assume if the whole male population was inflicted with this like me in 20s the whole of human society would colapse.

that is how catastrophic it is to be bald and young.

MAKES NO SENSE.

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I wouldn't say I look weird bald.Because there is no hair there to frame my face,it highlights all my features that are(by society) deemed as flaws ie fair-skinned,freckles,ginger/blond.It makes my lack of hair more pronounced.

 

[Man in Space]

Sebs fit

 

[seb]

I have a theory that Seb is hot

Yes it is only a theory,yet too be proved,or dispelled.

 

[Man in Space]

I think its time for photo evidence!!!

I reckon Seb is a big ol hunk of love

Yes thats right outright :gay2:

 

[s.a.f]

Define good looking...beauty is in the eye of the beholder,and all that clique cobblers.Granted I wouldn't be an oil painting IF I had hair,I think being fair-skinned anyway,it is hard too classed as mainstream good looking.
It is you're opinion that it is in my head...unless all the people that s**g me off are jealous of me(obviously not to sound arrogant) then it can't be all in my head.

People will treat you however they feel they can, if you come across as weak or unfreindly you will run into problems with certain people.

As for looks just out of curiosity how would you compare yourself to:
Steve Buscheme
Rowan Atkinson
Jack Black
Steven Tyler
Lil wayne

All these people are below average looking and yet I'd suggest that even if they were'nt famous they'd still be able to lead ordinary lives.

 

[s.a.f]

I think its time for photo evidence!!!

I reckon Seb is a big ol hunk of love

Yes thats right outright :gay2:

Exactly, just like those guys on here who post for ages about how being bald effects their lives then they finally post a pic and they're like NW2 !! :jackit:

 

[seb]

I think its time for photo evidence!!!

I reckon Seb is a big ol hunk of love

Yes thats right outright :gay2:

Now you are being facetious. :woot:

 

[seb]

Well done,you have caught me out,I am only Norwood 1.5(whatever the f**k this Norwood lark means)...on a serious note,even if I had excess to a phone that takes pics,I wouldn't,as I have mentioned I don't need to validate my feelings through the wishes/requests/needs of others.
Regarding comparing myself to the composed list,its fruitless as there is nothing too be gained from it.I will say this,I am decent looking FOR a BALD man,that in reality(unfortunately) is the best I will be....however I don't like the way I look,this is the crux of the problem,accepting oneself.I despise being bald for a number of reasons.This is obviously why any comment(whether a trowaway one,or a direct insult) affects me so much,I am not happy in my own skin,nor will I ever be.

 

[s.a.f]

I don't like the way I look,this is the crux of the problem,accepting oneself.I despise being bald for a number of reasons.This is obviously why any comment(whether a trowaway one,or a direct insult) affects me so much,I am not happy in my own skin,nor will I ever be.

Sounds like Michael Jackson. :shock:

 

[seb]

I don't like the way I look,this is the crux of the problem,accepting oneself.I despise being bald for a number of reasons.This is obviously why any comment(whether a trowaway one,or a direct insult) affects me so much,I am not happy in my own skin,nor will I ever be.

Sounds like Michael Jackson. :shock:

I suppose I could go down the path you chose,and have a hair transplant. :whistle:

 

[Man in Space]

Im not being a dick, I know you are very sensitive so I wouldnt dream of it! I genuinely suspect you are an attractive man

 

[s.a.f]

I don't like the way I look,this is the crux of the problem,accepting oneself.I despise being bald for a number of reasons.This is obviously why any comment(whether a trowaway one,or a direct insult) affects me so much,I am not happy in my own skin,nor will I ever be.

Sounds like Michael Jackson. :shock:

I suppose I could go down the path you chose,and have a hair transplant. :whistle:

You could, or you could just hate yourself for the rest of your life.

 

[seb]

S.A.F.-Good point,however you must hate yourself too,hence why you went down the drastic route of having surgery.Thats the ultimate self-hate measure,thus me pi**ing and moaning on a section of a hair loss forum,designed to vent ones frustrations,pales in comparison,don't you think?....

 

[HairPieceMan]

we dont hate ourselves if we don't want to be pre-maturely balding in our lives, alot of us can't resume a remotely normal "young mans" life BALDING.

thats liek saying a fully grown man who is 5 2 hates himself if he wants to be 5 6 and be a regular short but grown up height for a man.

 

[seb]

we dont hate ourselves if we don't want to be pre-maturely balding in our lives, alot of us can't resume a remotely normal "young mans" life BALDING.

thats liek saying a fully grown man who is 5 2 hates himself if he wants to be 5 6 and be a regular short but grown up height for a man.

Neither can I.

 

[s.a.f]

S.A.F.-Good point,however you must hate yourself too,hence why you went down the drastic route of having surgery.Thats the ultimate self-hate measure,thus me pi**ing and moaning on a section of a hair loss forum,designed to vent ones frustrations,pales in comparison,don't you think?....

Not really better to take action about something than just allow it to consume you.
Thats abit like saying someone who gets a gastric band is worse than someone who just continues to be morbidly obese.

 

[seb]

Yeah but that action hasn't made you look better,or feel better has it,or else you wouldn't be on here,surely.....

 

[s.a.f]

Yes it has, I'm no longer seen the same as a NW6 like I used to bewhich is a vast improvement. But yes its still not perfect and I find it entertaining on here. I like to offer advice and some people unlike yourself have opinions worth listening to. :whistle:

 

[seb]

Yes it has, I'm no longer seen the same as a NW6 like I used to bewhich is a vast improvement. But yes its still not perfect and I find it entertaining on here. I like to offer advice and some people unlike yourself have opinions worth listening to. :whistle:

 

[seb]

Im not being a dick, I know you are very sensitive so I wouldnt dream of it! I genuinely suspect you are an attractive man

No,I am Freddy Krueger.