Why Do People Start To Think You Are A Pedo If You Are Balding Or Have A Receded Hairline

[JohnsonDDG]

Although Baron Corbin has the most tragic hair in the wwe

 

[swingline747]

An inconvenient truth

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whoa, man didnt realize that. I even did a double search on Batista 2017 and a whole bunch of pictures of him with a good hairline still came up in wrestling shots.

Guess its just that hollywood magic.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

whoa, man didnt realize that. I even did a double search on Batista 2017 and a whole bunch of pictures of him with a good hairline still came up in wrestling shots.

Guess its just that hollywood magic.

He diffused really quickly in his last wwe run which I think was late 2015.

Over a period of around 3 months he lost 50% density and then he just shaved it all off.

His hair was so dense in 2006

and now its almost gone

 

[swingline747]

He diffused really quickly in his last wwe run which I think was late 2015.

Over a period of around 3 months he lost 50% density and then he just shaved it all off.

His hair was so dense in 2006
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and now its almost gone

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honestly I wouldnt doubt from roiding

 

[Exodus2011]

He diffused really quickly in his last wwe run which I think was late 2015.

Over a period of around 3 months he lost 50% density and then he just shaved it all off.

His hair was so dense in 2006
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and now its almost gone

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. . . . . . . that's almost gone? are you serious?

 

[blackg]

There's becoming nothing worse on here then seeing in your alerts "blackg has quoted your post" even when it's an apparent compliment.

Love ya!

 

[blackg]

"When I'm perfect, I'm going to start doing things, you'll see!"

Heard that before and I don't get it, it's just a bad hair line.

When I decided to stop dating, I was bald, I had boobs and acne, all at the same time.

Here it was common sense, horrible combination. Lol, "pedo hair line".

To me it's a cope, "Tomorrow will be better! I'll be happier when I have a pool, a horse, a big house, etc."

It probably won't be unfortunately. You should be able to get sex now.

I have to agree with you on this one, Freddo.
People, too often, put all their faith in a brighter tomorrow.
A tomorrow that never comes.

 

[Bklyn_23]

Yes I did.

Maybe?

How could one possibly have the track record (30+ girls in my bed) looking like that guy!

He's what I would call "legit ugly".

I don't think that guy's ugly at all. He's average imo (except for the hair). Maybe a 5-6 facially.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I don't even know why I'm suggesting this experiment, you just know how a guy who looks like that would do online.

At least when you have enough life experience.

Yep, a lot of experiments with male models, but how about seeing how a truly below average guy would do?

Here they are:

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/4d432c/anyone_else_kinda_gave_up_on_tinder/

Lol at the cope in the most upvoted comment.

I would love to see more tinder experiments - i'm genuinely curious to see how much looks play a factor ( I know they do - I just want to know to what extent)

I also want to know if adding a bio helps or not.

I always left swipe people with no bios and I wonder if women do the same.

 

[Captain Rex]

Yes I did.

Maybe?

How could one possibly have the track record (30+ girls in my bed) looking like that guy!

He's what I would call "legit ugly".

that guy is NOT "LEGIT UGLY".
yea he looks weak and has a baby face but he can easily live a normal life. He can get a job, run his own business and nobody would laugh at him unless they are sadistic chads ofc. He can easily mix in with the society.

if you call that man "Legit ugly" then you don't know a thing about ugliness.

and about that dating part, he should forget about dating anyone because girls settle for the best, so no way he is getting any matches. Tinder is all about looks and sh*t. Nobody should even bother to use it if they are average or below than that. It will be a humiliating experience at the end of the day.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

What @h.l. was saying.

It seems like we can't acknowledge true ugliness because it makes us uncomfortable.

That guy is fucked. Yes of course he can do things in life, but it's going to be so much harder than for your above average guy.

Good-looking guys can cruise through life doing whatever and being whatever they want.

Halo effect of peace is going to make sure that people admire them no matter what.

The answer - be good looking and not autistic

 

[Captain Rex]

Yes of course he can do things in life, but it's going to be so much harder than for your above average guy.

Good-looking guys can cruise through life doing whatever and being whatever they want.

Halo effect of peace is going to make sure that people admire them no matter what.

This. Couldn't agree more.

It will be harder for him but he can have a normal life unlike many of us here in this forum.

Few months ago, I couldn't even go out in the public because of all those disgusting response/looks. Now I am sporting a buzz cut which doesn't look good but still, the situation is far better now. People accepted my new look and I am back to being a normal person which was the main reason why I joined this forum. I lost my mind and was freaking out deep inside. Now, I can easily start a healthy conversation with people and I am all the more optimistic all of a sudden like a huge burden has been lifted off.

That GUY wouldn't be facing all these challenges for sure. Sometimes hairloss has a deeper impact on your regular life. But that is not the case with that man. He is not fucked up at all. That guy can easily pass with flying colours in all other fields where looks are not important. According to me, life is not about getting laid and finding a soul partner. It's about living peacefully and happily with respect and dignity.

Halo effect of peace is going to make sure that people admire them no matter what.

and that's where I believe that in near future, where everyone will understand the importance of looks, there will be a fashion of wearing mask and hiding their insecurities. Looks cannot define a person's personality and that's why we will be forced to hide our ugly looks so as to portray our true character. Too bad, it isn't mainstream yet. But being anonymous gives you a lot of power and freedom to express your thoughts and opinions without being mocked for your looks. And that's how this forum works. I am sure when you will see me in real life, you would definitely say that I don't even stand a chance. I am still wondering that if you call that man ugly, I don't know what you will say about me.

I wish I was born in that era.

what if the man was a bald guy? People would laugh at him for sure but the covering of the face was a genius move.

 

[Rudiger]

What @h.l. was saying.

It seems like we can't acknowledge true ugliness because it makes us uncomfortable.

Yeah well up to this part is what I was saying!

Just to clarify, I don't agree that true ugliness makes a person totally fucked, or even makes things significantly harder for them.

Somewhat harder? Yes of course, we're instantly more trustful of attractive people, we assume they have nicer lives and acknowledge any sign of their intelligence even if it's just average. They seem more impressive and dynamic. And on the flip side, ugliness is unwanted and avoided, just like the "pedo" assumption, we are more distrustful initially towards ugliness, everything works against an ugly guy. Example, if he's ugly and single, no surprise what a creep, if he has a wife, we subconsciously wonder how aesthetically awful she must be, and if she's not, we wonder if she's somewhat weird or mentally inept.

However this is only all factorised in first impressions, mostly it comes down to skills, intelligence, inter-personal relationships and camaraderie. Personality is highly important.

If we're talking about employment, promotions, salary, then I'd make an analogy to the "wage gap", which is a ridiculously overblown argument as well. Do men, who overall mainly run business, want to promote other like-minded men, give them pay rises because of friendship? If they had that as an option between 2 equally competent individuals of different gender, yes they choose the male.

Now, does it mean businesses are purposely hiring and promoting men even if it means they're incompetent and will cost them financially? f*** no.

And they won't do the same thing for attractive people, just as they won't do nothing for ugly people. Anyone in business will learn quickly not to "go with their gut instinct" as they'll be proven wrong over and over, realising the capability of the mind is random and sporadic, of no significance to a persons aesthetics. Anyone with a competitive and intelligent nature will realise this well before hitting maturity, and those who don't probably won't be successful enough to survive in such a position.

So to make it clear why my position may have seemed so anchored towards the "red-pill" thought earlier in this thread, I was simply saying that in our attempts to "wish" someone ugly to be attractive, we all reveal our true selves that to some extent, small or large, we shun ugliness and hope it goes away. I just found that interesting, and at the core of pretty much every human being, but how much we let that take control of us is a different story, and it's a great thing to acknowledge this superficiality that's in-built in us, then we gain more of a control over it.

As a side-note, just to demonstrate haphazard decision making of humans, I've seen people get nowhere in their occupation because they're attractive. With females, the assumption is that they are ditzy and simply eye-candy, and even a male boss promoting a hot female will have to truly evaluate this situation as there's an assumption he did so because she's hot (which of course, happens). With Chad's, there can be an assumption that he's all beauty and no brains, even if his competency is equal or even greater to other people in his field, if he's not as outstanding in his ability as he looks, then that impacts him negatively There's also an assumption he's vain and arrogant, which again can be hard to shake off as even the slightest remark on his own appearance is overblown to all the jealous people around him.

Variables, always those awkward inconvenient variables come in to play, and lots of them.

But any ugly guy who is living a terribly uncultivated life, in most cases is blaming the Halo effect on his rotten genetic luck.

That's a comforting cope.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Yeah well up to this part is what I was saying!

Just to clarify, I don't agree that true ugliness makes a person totally fucked, or even makes things significantly harder for them.

Somewhat harder? Yes of course, we're instantly more trustful of attractive people, we assume they have nicer lives and acknowledge any sign of their intelligence even if it's just average. They seem more impressive and dynamic. And on the flip side, ugliness is unwanted and avoided, just like the "pedo" assumption, we are more distrustful initially towards ugliness, everything works against an ugly guy. Example, if he's ugly and single, no surprise what a creep, if he has a wife, we subconsciously wonder how aesthetically awful she must be, and if she's not, we wonder if she's somewhat weird or mentally inept.

However this is only all factorised in first impressions, mostly it comes down to skills, intelligence, inter-personal relationships and camaraderie. Personality is highly important.

If we're talking about employment, promotions, salary, then I'd make an analogy to the "wage gap", which is a ridiculously overblown argument as well. Do men, who overall mainly run business, want to promote other like-minded men, give them pay rises because of friendship? If they had that as an option between 2 equally competent individuals of different gender, yes they choose the male.

Now, does it mean businesses are purposely hiring and promoting men even if it means they're incompetent and will cost them financially? f*** no.

And they won't do the same thing for attractive people, just as they won't do nothing for ugly people. Anyone in business will learn quickly not to "go with their gut instinct" as they'll be proven wrong over and over, realising the capability of the mind is random and sporadic, of no significance to a persons aesthetics. Anyone with a competitive and intelligent nature will realise this well before hitting maturity, and those who don't probably won't be successful enough to survive in such a position.

So to make it clear why my position may have seemed so anchored towards the "red-pill" thought earlier in this thread, I was simply saying that in our attempts to "wish" someone ugly to be attractive, we all reveal our true selves that to some extent, small or large, we shun ugliness and hope it goes away. I just found that interesting, and at the core of pretty much every human being, but how much we let that take control of us is a different story, and it's a great thing to acknowledge this superficiality that's in-built in us, then we gain more of a control over it.

As a side-note, just to demonstrate haphazard decision making of humans, I've seen people get nowhere in their occupation because they're attractive. With females, the assumption is that they are ditzy and simply eye-candy, and even a male boss promoting a hot female will have to truly evaluate this situation as there's an assumption he did so because she's hot (which of course, happens). With Chad's, there can be an assumption that he's all brains and no beauty, even if his competency is equal or even greater to other people in his field, if he's not as outstanding in his ability as he looks, then that impacts him negatively There's also an assumption he's vain and arrogant, which again can be hard to shake off as even the slightest remark on his own appearance is overblown to all the jealous people around him.

Variables, always those awkward inconvenient variables come in to play, and lots of them.

But any ugly guy who is living a terribly uncultivated life, in most cases is blaming the Halo effect on his rotten genetic luck.

That's a comforting cope.

Probably the finest post I've seen on this forum.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

What does a good personality even consist of? Not being fucked mentally and being able to hold a conversation?

Great personality = great looks.

It's all halo effect. The only way to actually have a bad personality is to be seriously fucked up. Taking pride in your good personality is like taking pride in wearing socks without holes in them.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I've genuinely only ever met nice Italians - they are usually a lot more outgoing and friendly than most nationalities.

But I guess dante know's best as he's been in Italy longer than I have.

 

[Rudiger]

Yep, @Dante92 is not even unsuccessful in life.

I guess Italy must be as bad as he says, even we should always be cautious of someone claiming that everyone in such country is like this or like that. Reality is always more complex.

I've just watched the movie 'La Grande Bellezza' and if most Italian people have the mentality shown in that movie, that's bad news for unattractive people in that country.

I think since Dante is successful in his job, he has to interact with high-class members of the Italian society, which as shown in that movie are often attractive egotistical and judgmental pricks.

Great film. Anything that truly yanks you in on a journey for any real life existence is worth watching, even if the subject matters are deplorable.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

What does a good personality even consist of? Not being fucked mentally and being able to hold a conversation?

Great personality = great looks.

It's all halo effect. The only way to actually have a bad personality is to be seriously fucked up. Taking pride in your good personality is like taking pride in wearing socks without holes in them.

Have you never met a fun and interesting ugly person?

 

[Rudiger]

I've genuinely only ever met nice Italians - they are usually a lot more outgoing and friendly than most nationalities.

But I guess dante know's best as he's been in Italy longer than I have.

This has been my experience as well, but I won't doubt Dante's.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Have you never met a fun and interesting ugly person?

Not of the opposite sex.